16 Stupidly Simple Ways To Become A Better Boyfriend

If you love her, you should want to make her happy. Luckily, that’s not as difficult as it might sound. Here are a few simple ways to become a better boyfriend, the man that she deserves:

“Honestly, get excitable. Nothing kills a conversation like when a man tries to look cool and not geek out when they want to. Seeing a dude get excited over their interests is adorable.” — LexiTheMistake

“Hugs and affection with no ulterior motive. Sometimes I like to be held without feeling like he’s wanting to fuck me.” — littleredhoodlum

“Just keep your girl up to date on things if you’re having a busy day. It keeps them less worried.” — picklevirgin

“I may hang out with your friends like one of the guys or play video games like one of the guys, but I am not one of the guys. I am your girlfriend. Give me attention outside of hanging with your friends, do things with me other than what you like to do with your friends, and spend quality time with me away from your friends. Not as a special treat, not as a holiday surprise, but as a normal part of our relationship.” — thotgirlisalady

“Know where the clitoris is, and how your partner likes hers to be simulated. Remember that MOST women do not get off through vaginal penetration.” — RageAgainstTheObseen

“If she’s complaining, or venting, it’s not always because she wants advice or a solution. Sometimes all that’s needed is to vent. So, in those situations, just let her vent.” — spaghatta111

“Explain how you feel. We want to know what you’re feeling.” — DeathLily496

“Surprise her sometimes by remembering something you shared and calling back to it.” — ihave10toes_AMA

“If you’re getting irritated with us, please calmly explain why. Or if we are trying to bring up what’s bothering us, please don’t get defensive and then flip the blame on us. Otherwise, it makes us feel like we’re just a nuisance to you. I get that communication is a learned skill that requires experience. In short- encouraging and practicing open, honest, and respectful communication on both sides.” — beemanuel

“Do not forget to tell your girlfriend she’s beautiful. I feel like so many guys forget to do this. Specially after they’ve been with a girl for a while. Girls love to be reminded that you’re still attracted to them. It goes a long way and it’ll always make her happy.” — jensofetch

“Plan out unique dates! Don’t leave it all up to her. And offer back rubs without wanting anything in return.” — hollsq

“You guys should be a team, not just you. This helps in arguments. Remind yourself you are a team and that you shouldn’t bring your own teammate down.” – [deleted]

“Ask her how she is everyday and make sure to be there for her 100% when she’s down.” — [deleted]

“A how are you text and a thinking about you text etc goes a long way!” — cheesesandwij

“Put in equal work around the house. Encourage her and support her aspirations. Don’t fucking cheat.” — zzzsleepzzzz

“Just hug her for no reason sometimes.” — LisLis85

“Affirm your affection for them by saying nice things, or qualities you like about them. Anything that shows your reassurance that they are the best.” — logo28