17 Signs He’s Too Immature To Treat You Right

“Whenever they get caught saying something stupid, they try to twist it to make it sound like they’re actually right, even if it breaks the laws of time/space/logic.” — Luckboy28

“Saying things like, ‘I’m not being rude I just don’t sugarcoat things.’ No, you’re an ass. If you can express your idea in a polite way there is no excuse to be mean. That just shows they don’t respect others enough to use basic niceties.” — FillerName007

“Talking about how much alcohol they drink as if it’s something to brag about. (Especially after maybe the first month or two of being 21.” — bethanynotbeth_

“There’s always drama going on in their life. Bonus points if they’re constantly posting on Facebook how they hate drama and they’ve grown out of it.” — [deleted]

“Rationalizing their bad behavior. Even better if it’s behavior that they themselves have admonished you for but it’s different when they do it.” — j_freakin_d

“When people redirect every conversation to make the focus be about them. You tell someone about a bad day you’re having and they immediately start telling you about a worse day they’ve had in the past.” — Klad_Steel

“Instead of trying to learn and grow from their mistakes they just try to put the blame on others.” — -eDgAR-

“When they believe everything is personally directed towards them. No, sometimes stuff just happens randomly. Another sign would be black and white thinking: either it’s this or it’s that, there’s nothing in between.” — butter00pecan

“Not being able to switch from ‘play’ mode to ‘serious work’ mode when needed. Like it’s okay to have fun while you work but also you need to be able to understand that you still have to get the job done and is not all games all the time.” — ChuckToTheTesta

“I’ve noticed it’s people that can’t or won’t accept responsibility for their actions when they fuck up. I also think people that immediately try and assume control of a situation with no credibility are often immature idiots who don’t know any better.” — Heavy_Riffs

“Inability to take responsibility for their actions / always blaming others or exogenous factors for things that are clearly personal issues.” — [deleted]

“If they only surround themselves with people who agree with them, and disregard facts that make them uncomfortable. Or if they repeatedly state that they could do a better job than someone at a given task, without having any prior experience or applicable skills in that arena.” — [deleted]

“When they have to have things their way, or they conclude someone doesn’t like them.” — Back2Bach

“They only think about themselves. Every conversation, story, action, etc always revolves around them.” — [deleted]

“Complaining about easily fixable problems in their lives, i.e. a grown adult who constantly reminds everyone they have no income, but refuses to even try applying for jobs.” — orangeintheovercast

“Ad hominem attacks. If you’re resorting to calling people names you don’t deserve to be taken seriously.” — beanacomputer

“Sarcasm is a good way to tell. If someone is sarcastic just to put others down/make them feel dumb, they are usually pretty immature.” — [deleted]