3 Birth Months Who Give Too Much (+ Get Too Little In Return)

October

You love affection and being in a relationship, and when you’re in it with someone, you’re in it. You’re loyal and selfless — almost to a fault at times. If you’re in an okay relationship, you are the type to convince yourself that it’s good. Conflict and confrontation are not your cups of tea, so you often choose to ignore the flaws in someone or something so you don’t have to deal with them. Or, you really, actually, don’t see it…and you don’t see how much more you deserve. You love love and you would settle for the bare minimum, as long as you’re not alone

March

Much like October, you love affection and being in love. You’re selfless and will do whatever you can to make a relationship work. You will give second chances to someone — even if they don’t deserve it — with hopes that things will be better the next time around. As an emotional sign, you’re in tune with the negative feelings we all face, especially in relationships: insecurity and anxiety. You hate conflict too, so with your self-doubt, you are one to settle for less than you deserve.

May

It takes a lot for you to get into a relationship, but when you’re in one, you are loyal and have no desire to leave or change any aspect of the relationship. If it ain’t broke, don’t fix it! is your motto. Since you are so faithful and you also hate change, you’re one to stay complacent. You will settle for less than you deserve simply because you don’t want to deal with anything difficult. You’re so stubborn too, so you’ll do whatever you need to do to preserve the relationship, even if it’s not worth it anymore.