4 Zodiacs Who Are Always An Almost, Never A Girlfriend
Youโre always an almost because you hide behind walls. You donโt want to come across as vulnerable, so you pretend that you care about your crushes less than you actually do. And this creates a self-fulfilling prophecy. If you assume they are going to hurt you and push them away, then theyโre going to stay away. Theyโre going to end up hurting you because you gave them no other choice. You need to start being more honest with your crushes (and yourself) about how you feel. You need to stop pretending that youโre heartless. Make it clear that you do have feelings. Speak them out loud. Donโt be afraid because you are one of the most fearless signs in the zodiac.
Youโre always an almost because no one has any idea how you feel about them. They never know that youโre interested because you never let them know what has been running through your mind. You simply hope that theyโll guess, that theyโll be able to interpret the subtle signals that youโve been giving them โ the type of signals that you would completely overlook if the roles were reversed because they arenโt nearly big enough. If you want to take your almost relationships to the next level, you canโt keep quiet. When you have feelings for someone, you lock your feelings inside instead of telling them the truth about how you really feel. You need to stop being so scared to voice your opinion. Yes, you could end up with your heart broken, but at least youโll know where you stand with this person. At least youโll be able to say that you gave love a real shot.
Youโre always an almost because you take what you can get. You donโt want to be greedy, so you never ask for more. You never put your foot down and say that what youโre receiving isnโt good enough. Youโre terrified of chasing this person away, so you settle for the bare minimum. But if asking for what you want makes them run in the other direction, guess what? They were never good for you in the first place. You need to find someone who is on the same page as you. Someone who is willing to put in the same amount of effort as you. Remember, you shouldnโt be doing all the work while they reap all the rewards. You should be benefiting from this relationship, too.
Youโre always an almost because you are stuck in your ways. You never want to take the next step with someone and risk ruining your friendship or risk making things awkward at school or work. Even though you might not be happy with the way things are right now, youโre even more scared of change. Youโre scared that youโre going to regret speaking from the heart, so you say nothing. You do nothing. You are a passive player in your own love life. And if you keep treating your crushes like friends, theyโre going to assume that thatโs all you ever want to be. You need to be brave enough to announce that you want something else, something new.
