4 Zodiacs Who Are Truly Overcomplicating Their Own Life

SAGITTARIUS

Sagittarius just needs to take a beat and be single for a second. They moved from one long-term break-up to a really chaotic and tumultuous rebound, and are now fanning the flames of engagement rumors with their latest beau. At no point of this romantic Rube Goldberg did they stop to pause and assess the damage. They keep sweeping their pain under the rug of a new relationship, and the rugs keep having to get bigger and bigger to accommodate all of the baggage they haven’t dealt with. They’re doing a disservice to their current partner by not addressing their own emotional needs, and failing to get to know themselves on their own first. They may act like they thrive on this rollercoaster of love, but the truth is they’re never really bouncing back as easily as they want you to believe. Every time they touch the ground, a new bruise is acquired. 

LIBRA

Libra just needs to get out of the middle of the conflict they’re currently getting torn apart in. No matter how much they love either of the combatants, they’ll never find a way to please everyone in this scenario, and in trying to avoid hurting both parties, they’ll end up causing nothing but self-harm. Libra can’t play mediator to everyone else’s fight, and most definitely can’t claim or take responsibility for the outcome. Other people need to own up and be accountable for their own words or actions, and can’t hide behind Libra, using them as a shield bearer for their standard of self-righteousness. What always ends up happening is that Libra is never truly impartial. There will always be a true opinion they end up withholding from one party, and a failure to truly stand up for the other. Devil’s Advocate isn’t a role they were born to play.

GEMINI

Gemini just needs to let it go. Whatever someone did or said or communicated through other nefarious non-verbal means, Gemini just needs to stop fixating and perseverating on the encounter. Especially if the other party has told them it wasn’t their intention or has apologized. Gemini is so afraid that forgiving someone means giving them permission to hurt them in the exact same way all over again, but that’s not the case. Other people are as capable of growth and change and evolution as Gemini is, and Gemini needs to learn to cut people the same amount of slack they are willing to cut themselves, which while not much, is still something. Once they realize that all of this overthinking and overanalyzing is mostly in their heads, they just need to speak up and tell the other person how it makes them feel. So much of their drama can be completely squashed with a simple conversation.

ARIES

Once Aries stops trying to convince themselves that they’re not in love, they can’t be in love, or that they shouldn’t be in love with this particular person, the sooner they can simplify their overly complicated life. They’re just not a sign who can live in this heavy a state of denial for so long. They feel suffocated by the falseness of their own thought processes and actions, and will need to drop the act before too long. Whatever excuses they are relying upon are false crutches meant to protect them from getting hurt or facing criticism, but at the end of the day, Aries is the only person who can decide what’s right for them or their own life. Not every decision Aries makes has to be the popular one, but it does need to be the decision they can live with.