In order to make the most of this October, you need to be careful about who you invest your time in. If you worry too much about people who couldn’t care less about you, it will be a recipe for disappointment. Here are some zodiacs who need to protect their peace this October:
You are one of the most selfless signs in the zodiac, so you always want to treat others with kindness and respect, but sometimes they don’t deserve so much generosity. If someone is unable to treat you with the respect that you deserve, then you don’t need to continue giving them access to you. It’s okay to protect your peace by removing them from your contact list and your life overall. No, it’s not going to be easy to walk away from someone you saw potential with, but you can’t keep holding out for a better tomorrow with them. Look at how they’re treating you today.
This upcoming month, you should be careful with your boundaries because you don’t want to allow anyone to cross them and get away with it. You don’t want to let them treat you unfairly without calling them out and making your discomfort known. It might be uncomfortable to speak up to them In the moment, but you need to use your voice and stand up for yourself. In order to protect your peace, you need to be clear about your expectations and boundaries. You need to say how you feel instead of bottling everything inside and hoping the rest of the world guesses what you want.
You can’t allow certain people to take advantage of you, just because you have strong feelings for them. You can’t allow your love to cloud your judgement and convince you to settle for less than you deserve. You need to protect your peace by cutting out the people who are refusing to rise to your standards, who are unable to give you as much as you give them every single day. Yes, it might hurt to say goodbye to them in the moment, but you are going to be happier in the end. After all, you deserve to be surrounded by people who see your worth and appreciate you. People who never make you feel bad about yourself.
You’re not the type to give up on people. You are willing to give them another chance ninety-nine percent of the time because you believe in forgiveness and growth. But you need to ask yourself whether or not this person is actually interested in growing. If they are only saying that they will change but never follow through with their actions, they’re only saying what you want to hear. And in order to protect your peace, you need to stay away from them. You need to put yourself first for a change. It’s not selfish to make the decision that will bring you the most peace. It’s actually the healthiest way to live.