4 Zodiac Signs Facing Big Choices In Love (+ Tarot Advice On How To Choose)

Aries, Taurus, Scorpio, and Pisces are all susceptible to facing some big choices in love in the coming weeks. For each of these signs, our tarot reader has done a four-card tarot reader to help advise them on how to face their big decisions.

The four cards represent: 

• Energy You Bring – The Energy You’re Bringing To the Relationship
• Energy They Bring – The Energy They’re Bringing To The Relationship
• Your Relationship’s Energy – The Overall Energy or Vibe of the Relationship Itself.
• Advice – Overall Advice.

Aries

Energy You Bring – Seven of Swords. You’ve been quite cautious, and it’s been part of the reason you haven’t been bringing your best to the relationship. You may even be grappling with thoughts of deception – either on your part or your partner’s. 

Energy They Bring – Page of Pentacles. They’re dependable and practical, and always seem to be attempting to problem-solve and make people comfortable. They can sometimes be a bit overzealous and clingy and may hold on to a lot of immature perspectives.

Your Relationship’s Energy – Strength, Reversed. When you both are feeling secure, there’s a lot of beauty and gentleness here. The problems arise when things aren’t so gentle, and one of you is overtaken by self-doubt. There’s a lot of potential for you to support each other at your best – be sure not to enable each other’s worst impulses.

Advice – King of Swords, Reversed. The lack of trust and one-sided maturity makes the relationship move between hot and cold. It can leave both of you feeling like you’re walking on eggshells. There might be a lot of chemistry, but there are also a lot of poor patterns that lead to neglect, manipulation, and sometimes worse. If you’re committed to the relationship, there’s a lot of foundational work to be done. Work on rebuilding trust from square one. Include each other in your thoughts and emotions – especially when it feels like it might be difficult. It might require help.

Taurus

Energy You Bring – King of Pentacles. You’ve got a lot of wisdom and hat helps you to create stability in your relationships. You have a talent for making those you care about comfortable, and you enjoy strengthening your relationships by deepening them. 

Energy They Bring – Two of Pentacles. They are high-energy. Their ability to take on many roles and to juggle a lot of responsibilities keeps things interesting. Their reactive, multitasking nature can cause conflict with your need for plans. 

Your Relationship’s Energy – Eight of Wands. It’s been exciting and thrilling and nearly non-stop. The energy and passion have hit both of you straight in the heart and have made it difficult for either of you to focus on anything else other than each other. Make sure that you spend time on the foundations of trust, especially when things are moving so fast. 

Advice – Eight of Swords. Not everyone seeks the same stability that you do, and sometimes when there’s a mismatch in that expectation, the relationship can feel a bit intense and overbearing. While you might need some solid plans, they might feel restricted and nervous about making promises that they are aware might slip their mind. If you’re committed, you’ll find a way to accommodate each other. There’s a lot of potential to build something both exciting and lasting.

Scorpio

Energy You Bring – Two of Wands, Reversed. There’s something going on that is leaving you feeling unfulfilled, and like you’re unable to grow into the person you’re hoping to become while in your relationship. Evaluate the source of that feeling, and make sure it’s not attached to any negative narratives that you’ve been telling yourself. Be open with yourself about what you’re looking for. 

Energy They Bring – Four of Pentacles. While everything feels comfortable and stable, it also feels as if they are holding something back. 

Your Relationship’s Energy – Queen of Wands. There’s a lot of fun, spark, and creativity between the two of you. When you aren’t enjoying each other’s company romantically, you might also be working with each other on an artistic project of some sort. There’s support, love, and a bit of passion.

Advice – Nine of Wands. There’s a lot of potential for something passionate and lovely if you can work on opening up with each other. The reason both of you aren’t feeling as fulfilled as you would like is because you’re both still holding back. Both of you may have been hurt in prior romantic relationships, which has impacted how much vulnerability each of you is willing to display with each other. If you’re committed, lean into the relationship. To allow healing and long-term success to happen will take truly letting each other in.  

Pisces

Energy You Bring – Nine of Pentacles, Reversed. Your life has a lot going for it, and you’ve been feeling the abundance. But you’re still not feeling totally satisfied with where things are in your romantic life. 

Energy They Bring – Seven of Wands, Reversed. They were recently hurt, and the wounds they carry are impacting how they react to you and to everything. They seem to read everything you say for the worst possible meaning and don’t give you any benefit of the doubt. 

Your Relationship’s Energy – Five of Swords, Reversed. There’s a lot of competition and bickering. It can start playful and then get into hurtful territory far too quickly. What started as something that happened just once in a while is escalating, and while play fighting felt invigorating now it just leaves you both feeling distant and sullen. 

Advice – Three of Wands. While you both have been talking about moving to the next phase, you’ve also been feeling like the passion is gone and things aren’t going the way you’d like. Instead of being supportive, but playful, with each other, you’ve ended up not seeing eye to eye and not reading each other’s moods well. If you’re committed to making things work, spend time talking things out with each other. Be truthful about where you hope to see things going, and what you’re feeling challenged by.