15 Traits That Make Men Undateable

“Being an alpha. Alphas don’t exist. The entire concept is based on a study of wolves that has not only been disproven, but the original scientist who published the theory spent the remainder of his career spreading the word that he was wrong and researching actual wolf behaviors. Anyone who claims to be ‘an alpha’ immediately tells me a few things about themselves: 1) They just believe what they want to believe without bothering to check if it’s true. Likely, they’re unwilling to accept truth when they’re corrected. 2) They don’t think things through. There is no ‘an alpha,’ there could only be a ‘the alpha’ (if it was even a thing in the first place). You can’t have an entire community of leaders in the same way that you can’t have a restaurant with only managers and no cooks. 3) They look down on others. Enough said. 4) Anyone who needs to announce to the world how big and cool and strong they are only does so because they can’t prove it with their actions.” — AskRedditAndChewGum

“Men who have no intellectual curiosity, don’t like to learn about things, are proud of not having read a book since they were in school.” — bain_de_beurre

“I find a man unattractive who doesn’t know how to carry a conversation in a reciprocal fashion: listening, asking a question, being asked a question, answering, expressing empathy or the ability to relate, asking follow up questions. Unattractive: bragging about oneself, dominating the conversation, not asking questions, not listening, offering condescending advice, self-centered, rude remarks.” — Solid-City-3798

“If they still have too much of an attachment to their parents. It’s one thing to be close but if every time you fight their first reaction is to call their parents to settle the argument, knowing full well their parents will always take their side, that’s a problem.” — Scorchedearth57

“Too much religion and not enough actually using the brain their god supposedly gave them.” — Jimbru69

“For me, it’s smoking. Can’t stand the smell and it’s awful for both your health and your bank account.” — pavlovs_pavlova

“Way too confident. Like theres nothing wrong with a little confidence but I hate it when people think they’re better than everyone.” – poopjoke99

“I find anyone who’s WAY too manicured unattractive. When people are comfortable in themselves and embrace their flaws, I find it way more attractive than someone who looks like they spend hours getting ready with every hair in its perfect place and outfits that look pristine.” — SickAssFoo_69

“Snidely putting down other people for no reason. Especially if the other person was talking about something they’re passionate about. That shit hurts my soul.” — serbianspy

“When they’re incapable of maintaining a simple conversation. Is that hard to talk to me without going through your phone? Is your life that boring? Is my company that despicable?” — beardedalien013

“Attention seeking. It’s really exhausting to be around and really hard to engage/form a relationship with someone who has this behavior.” — 4quila4udax

“A ‘rules for thee, not for me’ type attitude. Closely related to the ‘I’m setting the bar low for myself, in regards to what you get from me and will constantly increase the your bar height, because I’m the prize’ type attitude.” — Black_Eggs_and_Spam

“When I notice they can’t apologize. This might take some time, but the first time I notice the person can’t apologize for what they did wrong, truthfully, to me it’s not unattractive, it’s the reddest of red flags.” — DarkFishoo

“Being rude to parents. The way a person treats the people that raised them is extremely important in my opinion. (This doesn’t apply to people with shitty parents.)” — JoeBidenThisPeePee

“Constantly spreading negativity and talking about how miserable they are.” — RusteddCoin