4 Zodiacs Who Pretend To Be Over Their Exes (Long Before It Actually Happens)

Everyone wants to ‘win’ the breakup, which is why they might not be entirely honest about where they are in the healing process. They might pretend that they have moved on, even when they aren’t even close to getting there yet. Here are the zodiacs who tend to pretend to be over their exes long before it actually happens:

Aries

Aries, you are never going to admit how much you miss your ex because you don’t want to give them the satisfaction of knowing you still care. You want them to think that you are completely over them, so that they regret leaving you behind. Your goal is to ‘win’ the breakup and look like you’re perfectly fine without them in your life. Although you are going to do your fair share of crying behind closed doors, you try your hardest to appear emotionless in public. Although your ex doesn’t need to know exactly how you’re feeling, remember there’s nothing wrong with being vulnerable. There’s nothing wrong with letting your real emotions loose. No one is going to think less of you.     

Gemini

You pretend to be over your exes long before it actually happens because you’re trying to speed through the stages of grief. You’re trying to look like you’re over them in the hopes that it might become your reality. But you can’t rush the process. You can’t forget about someone who meant so much to you. You need to be patient with yourself. It’s okay if it takes you a while to move on from this person. You have time. You’re going to get there eventually. 

Scorpio

Scorpio, once someone is out of your life, you consider them dead to you. That’s why you’re going to pretend your breakup has had zero impact on you. You’re going to pretend that your ex meant nothing and you are better off without them. Although a part of you might feel like this is true, you aren’t nearly as heartless as you try to appear to the outside world. Your breakups impact you way more than you allow anyone to see. You suffer in silence, but that’s the way you want it. You don’t want others to know how deeply upset you are – but remember, the right people aren’t going to judge you. They will be there to cheer you up. They will help you get through this and feel less alone.

Aquarius

From afar, you can come across as emotionless after breakups – but it’s only an act. You’re trying to protect yourself by ignoring your heart. You don’t want to be upset about your breakup, so you will pretend that you aren’t upset about the breakup. Of course, this performance can’t continue forever. Eventually, you’re going to have to process your emotions in order to heal and move on from this person for real. Your ex might never know how much you miss them and how upset you are about losing them, but you need to admit these feelings to yourself. You need to stop pushing your sad thoughts away and let them in. That’s the only way you’re going to move past this hurt.