Thought Catalog Agency

Here’s How You’d Want To Be Loved Based On Your Birth Month

January: You want to be loved for who you are, without any expectations or judgment.

You value honesty and authenticity in your relationships and appreciate when your partner takes the time to understand and support your unique individuality. When your partner is able to act in this deeply empathetic manner, you become aware of what you have in common, but you also recognize and value your differences.

February: You want to be loved for your vulnerability and sensitivity.

You crave deep emotional connections and intimacy in your relationships, and you appreciate when your partner is open and attentive to your emotional needs. You typically are sensitive to the needs of others, and you are willing to put yourself out there and be vulnerable in order to form a deep, meaningful bond with your partner. You want to be loved for your authenticity and your ability to express your emotions, and you are willing to take the risk of being hurt in order to experience true love.

March: You want to be loved for your reliability and dependability.

You appreciate when your partner is consistent and trustworthy, and you value open communication and clear boundaries in your relationships. “Love” is a deep, meaningful connection between two individuals that is built on mutual trust and respect. It is characterized by consistency, honesty, and open communication. When your partner is consistent in their actions and words, you can trust that they are there for you, and you can rely on them to be there for you.

April: You want to be loved for your creativity and spontaneity.

You appreciate it when your partner encourages and supports your passion and curiosity, and you value playful and adventurous relationships. Creativity and spontaneity also allow for a more exciting and dynamic relationship. By having a love that allows for new experiences and adventures, as well as a constant sense of surprise and unpredictability, it keeps the relationship fresh and vibrant and allows for growth and exploration within the connection.

May: You want to be loved for your warmth and empathy.

You appreciate when your partner is caring and attentive to your emotional well-being. Being able to cater to one’s emotional needs without pushing them is powerful. Having someone who is always there for you, no matter what life throws in your direction, is truly important to you. Being intimate means creating a safe space for your partner to open up and fully engage in the experience of loving you.

June: You want to be loved for your intelligence and ambition.

You appreciate when your partner is supportive and encouraging of your goals and dreams, and you value relationships that are stimulating and intellectually challenging. Small-picture goals aren’t the way you want to approach your life, so finding someone to match that passion is critical. You need someone in your life to support each other’s goals and always push each other to be the best versions of yourselves.

July: You want to be loved for your energy and enthusiasm.

You appreciate when your partner is spontaneous and open to new experiences, and you value relationships that are fun and dynamic. Your energy is not just a fleeting emotion but a deep-rooted desire to embrace each day with vigor and excitement. It’s essential for you to find someone just as eager to share the joys of life with you. Your energy is contagious, and it continues to inspire others in your life to live life to the fullest.

August: You want to be loved for the honesty and integrity in your relationships.

You appreciate when your partner is sincere and transparent. You typically value open and honest communication in your relationships. Being open helps your relationship grow to be authentic and genuine with your partner, allowing your relationship to promote open communication and encourage accountability and responsibility in your life. In love, honesty and integrity are essential for building trust and intimacy.

September: You want to be loved for your intuition and emotional intelligence.

You appreciate when your partner is attentive and understanding of your emotional needs, and you value deep and meaningful relationships. You crave emotional depth and connection in your relationships because being able to understand and manage your own emotions allows you to communicate your needs and boundaries, which are essential for maintaining a healthy, happy relationship. It can also help you navigate difficult situations, such as conflicts or misunderstandings, in a way that is respectful and fair to both parties.

October: You want to be loved for your strength and resilience.

You appreciate when your partner is supportive and encouraging of your personal growth and development, and you value relationships that are empowering and inspiring. This shows that they care about your well-being and want your relationship to reach its full potential. By showing that they see and appreciate the effort you are willing to put into the relationship, it shows that they are willing to support you and stand by you during difficult times.

November: You want to be loved for your sensuality and passion.

You appreciate when your partner is attentive and responsive to your physical needs, and you value relationships that are passionate and intimate. Having this type of love helps create a strong bond in your relationship. You feel a sense of connection and intimacy when your partner is attentive to your physical needs, and you are able to fully relax and let go in their presence. This allows you to feel fully accepted and supported and to build a strong and meaningful connection with your partner.

December: You want to be loved for who you are, with all of your flaws and imperfections.

You are craving a feeling of pure acceptance and validation. In love and intimacy, it is a sense of being seen and understood, without judgment or reservation. Having someone whisper sweet nothings in your ear, telling you how much they love and appreciate you, and how grateful they are to have you in their causes you feel a surge of emotion, knowing that you are truly loved and accepted for who you are.