Here’s Why Everyone Has A Crush On You, Based On Your Birth Order

The order you were born informs a lot on what you’re like as an adult. Whether you were a first, second, or middle child determined how your parents treated you and, in turn, what makes you amazing. Want to know why people have a crush on you? Find your birth order below for the method behind the madness.

Only Child

People like you because you’re a master at making fun things happen out of seemingly nothing. Your spontaneity and resourcefulness is legendary. As a kid, you needed a good imagination to have fun–something kids with siblings didn’t necessarily require. But with you, any night can become something epic that you’ll be talking about for years to come.

Youngest Child

While you may have been babied as a kid, it’s resulted in you making anyone feel special if they give you attention. People gravitate toward you as soon as you give them the time of day. You have that magnetic personality that won you a lot of friends when you were a kid and a lot of people crushing on you as an adult. As soon as you like someone back, you can just divert your attention to them and they’ll swoon.

Middle Child

People love your quiet intensity. You’ve got those “old soul” vibes. They crush on you because you’re a great listener and you make people feel heard. Sure, you may not have been the one making waves when you were a kid, but the truly good people will see you have so much great energy and love to give.

Oldest Child

You attract people who love stability and responsibility. Because you were the oldest, you had to grow up a little quicker than the rest of your siblings. That left you with an emotional (and probably literal) toolkit for getting things done. People crush on you because you have your shit together, and so few people can say the same about themselves.

Twin/Multiple

Twins and multiples are great at loyalty. When you truly love someone, you’ll do anything for them, and the people who are crushing on you can see that. You have a deep bond with your twin, so when you finally share that kind of bond with a partner, you already know what it takes to be two parts of a whole.