The Most Important Qualities Men Search For In A Serious Partner

When it comes to serious relationships, everyone is searching for something different — but when you break it down, most people simply want someone who makes them happy. According to Ask Reddit, here are the most important qualities men look for in a partner:

“As I got older, my requirements changed dramatically. Self motivating/driven is probably what I look for first. Nice tush is a close second though.” — KyleSmitten

“Loyalty, nobody wants to be cheated on. I also don’t want to have to constantly look over my shoulder in paranoia wondering if I’m being used for comfort.” — PandaMayFire

“For me, someone who understands my humor, believes in me, supports my interests and goals, loves me, and stays faithful.” — that_bearded_guy_94

“She softens his heart that he’s hardened to the world. She shows him love and understanding. Two things he’s grown up thinking were weaknesses. And she shows him how to make them strengths.” — -Vioar-

“She makes me laugh and we get each-other’s sense of humor. Everything else can be perfect, but without that, it’s a no.” — The_Funkhouse

“Humility. There’s almost nothing that turns me off more than an arrogant, prideful woman who’s full of herself.” — INeedAdvice44

“Compatibility, and willingness to put in work for the relationship.” — FreeWear2215

“She genuinely loves and genuinely supports him.  I’d move heaven and earth for someone I love, all they gotta do is give the word. If they can’t do anything in return at least just stand by my side and say, ‘I believe in you’ when I struggle. Otherwise, it ain’t gonna work.” — LEEVINNNN

“Prerequisite: I am attracted to them. This doesn’t mean they’re on the cover of a magazine, just that I feel attracted in her presence. Then, from there (in order, which does affect my attraction levels): Kindness. Easy going. Intelligence (can hold a conversation). Takes responsibility for her life and choices. Wants a similar lifestyle as me (or at least is okay with the one I want – I don’t want someone trying to get me to move up the corporate ladder. I work hard, but anyone who says, ‘I want a guy whose ambitious’ is an immediate turn off to me.)” — ovid10

“If she’s going to be a loyal life partner who will be there through thick and thin.” — manwithoutajetpack

“Respect, being treated and talked to nicely. There’s also something to be said for feeling accepted.” — -Sociology

“It depends on what stage of courtship/dating they are in. Nobody will say it, but 1000% the first thing a man looks for is physical attractiveness. Don’t hate, and if you are mad at that or disagree. Then from there some order of kindness and loyalty.” — bonecheck12

“That they always laugh at your jokes and know how to take them is very important. I can’t imagine a relationship without laughter.” — xmoninax

“A buddy. Allowing us some peace and serenity from the world out there. A reason for us to lose some of our rough edges. A source of light, joy, and laughter.” — ksiyoto

“Being herself… Don’t be someone you want to be. Be the person you really are.” — i_would_have

“I need to receive as much as I give. In all aspects of a relationship. Care as much as I care. “ — FloobyTubeSteak

“The same thing that woman look for in a man: the whole package. There’s no single most important thing, because it’s a combination of many things that matter.” — lifestop