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This Is How You Lose Her, Based On Her Zodiac Sign

Aries: March 21st – April 19th

You lose her by becoming boring, predictable. By treating her like an old friend instead of the love of your life. By letting the sparks fade and never flirting with her the way you used to flirt back when you were in puppy love.

Taurus: April 20th – May 20th

You lose her by lying to her. By acting distant. By keeping her in the dark and forgetting to tell her important information even though she tells you anything and everything. By making her pull answers out of you instead of just talking to her.

Gemini: May 21st – June 20th

You lose her by trying to change her. By telling her she would look better with dyed hair or without as much weight. By complaining about the songs and shows she loves the most. By bashing all of her favorite things and trying to turn her into someone she is not.

Cancer: June 21st – July 22nd

You lose her by neglecting her. By refusing to put in as much effort as you used to back when you first started dating. By assuming that she’s never going to leave you and you can treat her as horribly as you want without any repercussions.

Leo: July 23rd – August 22nd

You lose her by looking at other girls. By staring at the waitress for a little too long and mentioning your ex in conversations. By taking all of the effort she puts into her appearance for granted. By never realizing when she gets a new haircut or wears a new dress.

Virgo: August 23rd – September 22nd

You lose her by breaking promises. By saying one thing and doing another. By destroying the trust that she had in you because you valued yourself over your relationship. By being selfish with your love.

Libra: September 23rd – October 22nd

You lose her by turning everything into an argument. By ruining fun nights out with petty fights. By apologizing for your behavior and then repeating that behavior over and over again anyway. By never learning from your mistakes and repeatedly hurting her.

Scorpio: October 23rd – November 21st

You lose her by being too nice. By letting her walk all over you instead of calling her out on her bullshit. By being a pushover without your own opinion, because you’re trying so hard to make her like you. By never showing her the real you.

Sagittarius: November 22nd – December 21st

You lose her by making her feel like she’s trapped. By trying to control what she wears and when she goes out with her friends. By treating her like she’s your property and you get to have final say over all of her decisions.

Capricorn: December 22nd – January 19th

You lose her by not saying I love you back. By refusing to hold hands in public and make the relationship official. By avoiding all of her affection, even though you know how hard it is for her to open up to people and put herself out there.

Aquarius: January 20th – February 18th

You lose her by wanting her all to yourself. By expecting her to ditch her friends and her work so that she has more time to spend with you. By convincing her to give up on her dreams instead of encouraging her to follow her passion. By holding her back.

Pisces: February 19th – March 20th

You lose her by choosing your friends over her. By making fun of her in front of them and never defending her. By being too hungover to hang out because you were out with the boys all night. By caring more about your friends than about your girlfriend.