This Is How You’re Ruining Your Relationships, According To A Tarot Reader

Aries

Your card: 5 of Pentacles

While you might not show it on the surface, you’re plagued by worry in your relationship. You worry that you’re not getting enough attention, and then you worry that you’re being too needy for thinking that. It must be exhausting.

Taurus

Your card: 10 of Cups

You’re feeling really fulfilled. That’s great! But um…is your partner feeling the same way? You’re in danger of thinking things are fine when they’re not. For this relationship to work, both of you need to be happy. Check in with your partner before they check out.

Gemini

Your card: The Tower

Okay, admit it: There has been more than one relationship that you burnt down to the ground at the slightest inkling that you might be getting dump. You overreact. You burn bridges. You’ll do anything not to be the dumpee. And that means you’re missing out on scenarios that could have actually been fixed.

Cancer

Your card: 3 of Pentacles

You’re not great at teamwork in your relationship. You take on so much of the mental and emotional load in your relationship that it becomes heavily lopsided. You deserve someone who will do the work, too. But you have to let them.

Leo

Your card: The Fool

You love the beginning of a relationship. The butterflies. The honeymoon period. It’s exciting. But once it gets comfortable you start to lose interest. If you want a relationship that stands the test of time, you have to accept that it won’t always be sunshine and roses.

Virgo

Your card: 4 of Wands

When you finally feel comfortable in a relationship, you just want to celebrate. But that might be a bit premature. Is your partner at the same place you are in the relationship? There’s a danger that you could be getting ahead of yourself.

Libra

Your card: Judgement

You care way too much about what other people think about your relationship. You get your friends’ input. You watch out for your family’s response. But how do you feel? Not just you, but your partner, too? That’s all that matters.

Scorpio

Your card: 5 of Wands

You can be combative. Fights just seem to follow you from one relationship to the next. Don’t believe what some movies might tell you about fighting. In real life, arguing in a relationship isn’t the way to keep it spicy. It just makes it a lot less fun.

Sagittarius

Your card: Knight of Cups

When you feel romantic, you really go all out. It’s the idealism that could be holding you back. You’re feeling all the butterflies, which is nice, but it might be keeping you from seeing any red flags. Things probably aren’t as great as you think.

Capricorn

Your card: Queen of Wands

You have a lot of determination, which is great, but sometimes that translates into working too hard to make a relationship work long after it should have ended. Accept that some things just can’t be saved.

Aquarius

Your card: The Hierophant

You like tradition a little too much. You get stuck on how relationships are supposed to work. In real life, every relationship is different and needs different things from each person. And even within that one relationship, things change over time.

Pisces

Your card: The World

You have this dream that your relationship will be this all-encompassing thing. It’ll solve all your problems. It’ll be the stuff of legends. But that lofty goal will likely mean you’ll be disappointed every time.