What Each Birth Month Should Stop Feeling Guilty About In Relationships
My twisty new thriller,ย The Guilty Twin, follows two ex-best friends who are plagued with guilt over the lies theyโve told and the secrets theyโve kept. In honor of its upcoming release on June 15th, here is what Each birth month should stop feeling so guilty about in relationships:
April
Stop feeling guilty about bringing up your complaints. Itโs better for you to get your thoughts out in the open than to pretend everything is fine. And once you admit whatโs wrong, you can work toward fixing it together.
May
Stop feeling guilty about getting emotional. The right person isnโt going to get uncomfortable when you cry. They will want to know how youโre really feeling. They will feel honored that you trusted them enough to open up to them.
June
Stop feeling guilty about the pace youโre moving because youโre allowed to take as much time as you need. The right person wonโt rush you.
July
Stop feeling guilty about having high expectations because you should never settle. The right person will be happy to meet your standards. They will want to give you everything that you deserve.
August
Stop feeling guilty about โbeing clingyโ because the right person is going to be happy to hear from you. Theyโll want to spend plenty of time with you. Theyโll be attached to you too.
September
Stop feeling guilty about your baggage. The right person wonโt judge you over what youโve been through as long as youโre trying to be the best partner you can be. As long as youโre dedicated to growing and healing.
October
Stop feeling guilty about disagreeing with your partner because you donโt have to have all the same thoughts and opinions, and you donโt want to lie or play pretend in order to keep the peace. Itโs better to be honest.
November
Stop feeling guilty about wanting more of your partnerโs time because the right person will set aside room in their schedule for you. They will make sure you never feel neglected and lonely.
December
Stop feeling guilty about saying no because you donโt owe your partner anything. If something makes you uncomfortable, or youโre simply not in the mood to do it, then donโt do it. The right person will understand.
January
Stop feeling guilty about going out with your friends because youโre allowed to have fun without your partner. Youโre allowed to have your own lives.
February
Stop feeling guilty about prioritizing yourself because your needs matter too. Itโs not selfish to do what makes you happiest instead of always catering to what your partner wants.
March
Stop feeling guilty about giving your partner space because itโs not healthy to be together every moment of the day anyway. Youโll have a chance to miss each other if you spend some time doing your own thing.