Why Your Flirting Keeps Failing, Based On Your Birth Month
January
Your flirting keeps failing because your walls are too high. You are only showing them the surface level. You are scared to get deep with them, so there’s a barrier between you. You never get to really know each other enough for a relationship to form.
February
Your flirting keeps failing because you’re scared to make the first move. You want the other person to initiate anything and everything flirtatious. You refuse to show your feelings first, so sometimes, you don’t end up showing your feelings at all.
March
Your flirting keeps failing because you’re not confident. You aren’t showing them what a catch you are. You’re keeping your head down, literally and metaphorically. You need to remember that you’re worth their effort. You’re deserving of their love.
April
Your flirting keeps failing because you take your teasing a little too far. Sometimes, people assume that you genuinely don’t like them, when really, you’re only being ‘mean’ to them because you have feelings for them. But you can’t expect anyone to guess what you’re thinking.
May
Your flirting keeps failing because you are giving subtle signals. No one is able to pick up on your feelings because you’re being too vague. You aren’t showing enough interest to make your intentions clear. You need to be more obvious.
June
Your flirting keeps failing because you aren’t showing them the real you. You’re trying to mold yourself into what you think they want instead of giving your true opinions and letting your personality shine through. However, you really should be yourself.
July
Your flirting keeps failing because you psych yourself out and never end up flirting in the first place. You are so worried about getting rejected or making a fool out of yourself that you don’t put yourself out there. You don’t even make the attempt.
August
Your flirting keeps failing because you’re too impatient. You assume that this person will push you against a wall and kiss you immediately if they’re interested, but relationships rarely work that fast. You need time to get comfortable with each other.
September
Your flirting keeps failing because you keep waiting for the perfect moment to make your move — but there’s never going to be a perfect moment. You’re always going to have a reason to procrastinate some more if you let yourself. You need to make the leap anyway.
October
Your flirting keeps failing because you’re picking the wrong people to chase. You need someone who rises to your standards, someone who is willing to give you as much as you give them, someone who sees your worth without you needing to spell it out for them.
November
Your flirting keeps failing because you’re a pessimist and assume no one could ever like you. You give up too early without really giving this other person a shot. You barely try because you assume that a relationship isn’t going to work out anyway.
December
Your flirting keeps failing because you’re only forward over text. When you come face to face with crushes, your vibe seems completely different and they don’t know what to make of it. They aren’t sure whether they were reading you wrong over text or whether you’re still interested.