You’re Going To Miss The Girl You Considered Clingy

You’re going to miss the girl who you considered clingy because not everyone is going to show up for you the way that she has. Not everyone is going to remember the little things that you’ve said and ask you about them later. She was always concerned with how you were doing because she genuinely cared about your well-being. She wanted to know that you were doing okay, and if you weren’t, then she would’ve gone out of her way to help you. You were never an inconvenience in her mind. She would have done anything to make you happy because she appreciated you in a way that you never appreciated her.

You’re going to miss the girl who you considered clingy because in serious relationships, couples are supposed to spend a lot of quality time together. They are more than just lovers. They are best friends. They are confidants. They are a support system for one another. She would have been all of those things for you, but you weren’t interested. You turned down someone who would have been there for you in every conceivable way. Someone who was ready to go all-in if only you had felt the same.

You’re going to miss the girl who you considered clingy because she only came across that way since she liked you so much. She acted ‘clingy’ because she wanted to spend as much time with you as possible, because she saw potential in you, because she thought you could have a real future together. Although she has a huge heart, she doesn’t treat every single person she meets this way. She considered you special. She was willing to go the extra mile for you because you felt worth it. It was a compliment, but you took it as an insult.

You’re going to miss the girl who you considered clingy because she’s never coming back into your life. She’s never going to forget the way you treated her, just for showing interest in you. A small part of her is always going to worry whether she’s coming on too strong, whether she should tone down her feelings and send less texts in order to avoid chasing her next partner away. She is always going to be scared that her kindness and intensity will turn others off, when really, it will only draw the right one toward her.  

You’re going to miss the girl who you considered clingy because she probably wasn’t clingy at all. You probably only considered her clingy because she was open about her feelings. She didn’t play games with you or make you guess what was on her mind. She openly admitted how much she liked you. When she wanted to hear from you, or spend more time with you, she reached out to you instead of hoping you would make the move. She was brave enough to chase after what she wanted, and to be vulnerable with you, but you broke her heart. And one day, she will find someone who appreciates this about her. Someone who will love how ‘clingy’ she is because it means she cares.