3 Zodiacs Who Confuse Limerence For Love
Love at first sight isnโt actually love. Itโs limerence.
Limerence is a state of infatuation with and a longing for someone, with all-consuming passion and a dopamine rush.
There are 3 stages of limerence. The first stage is Attachment/Infatuation. During this stage, youโre uncovering each otherโs personalities and developing an emotional connection. Itโs attachment to this person, or rather, the idea of them, simply because youโre still getting to know them.
The second stage is Crystallization: white-hot passion and obsession. This is the love Iโve been waiting for my whole life. During this stage, youโre wearing rose-colored glasses and putting them in a box by choosing to ignore their worst traits and only looking at the good ones. Itโs the halo effectโblinded by love.
The third stage is Deterioration. Itโs when you abandon your morals and better judgment and make decisions based on the narrative youโve created about them and your relationship.
Thereโs a difference between love and limerence, and oftentimes when youโre in a relationship, it can be hard to notice those differences. With all that being said, there are some zodiac signs that fall in love at first sight, and might even confuse limerence for love:
Libra
Libra is ruled by Venus, the planet of love, sex, and beauty. Theyโre hopeless romantics who look at life and love through rose-colored glasses. They romanticize the hell out of their relationships and their partner, even if the person is no good for them. They fall in love quickly and would willingly abandon their morals, values, and dreams if their partner asked them to. They are the kind of people who put their partnerโs needs before their own, and that obsessive lovey behavior comes from someone who is in limerence.
Scorpio
If thereโs one zodiac sign that is extremely possessive and obsessive over their romantic partners, itโs Scorpio. Theyโre incredibly passionate, intense, sensual lovers. When they set their sights on someone they find attractive, there is no way you can change their mind. In fact, they will ignore the red flags and begin to envision and create a future with someone. For them, itโs often infatuation, not love.
Pisces
Pisceans are the dreamers of the zodiac. With that, they get a reputation for being โdelusional.โ Theyโre romantics and often look at life through rose-colored glasses. If they see someone attractive, they automatically jump into an โIโm in love with this personโ mindset. Theyโre sensitive and introspective and will empathize with their partner, even when they show them their worst qualitiesโฆ
