Erik Rojas

3 Zodiacs Who Confuse Limerence For Love

Love at first sight isnโ€™t actually love. Itโ€™s limerence.

Limerence is a state of infatuation with and a longing for someone, with all-consuming passion and a dopamine rush.

There are 3 stages of limerence. The first stage is Attachment/Infatuation. During this stage, youโ€™re uncovering each otherโ€™s personalities and developing an emotional connection. Itโ€™s attachment to this person, or rather, the idea of them, simply because youโ€™re still getting to know them.

The second stage is Crystallization: white-hot passion and obsession. This is the love Iโ€™ve been waiting for my whole life. During this stage, youโ€™re wearing rose-colored glasses and putting them in a box by choosing to ignore their worst traits and only looking at the good ones. Itโ€™s the halo effectโ€“blinded by love.

The third stage is Deterioration. Itโ€™s when you abandon your morals and better judgment and make decisions based on the narrative youโ€™ve created about them and your relationship.

Thereโ€™s a difference between love and limerence, and oftentimes when youโ€™re in a relationship, it can be hard to notice those differences. With all that being said, there are some zodiac signs that fall in love at first sight, and might even confuse limerence for love:

Libra

Libra is ruled by Venus, the planet of love, sex, and beauty. Theyโ€™re hopeless romantics who look at life and love through rose-colored glasses. They romanticize the hell out of their relationships and their partner, even if the person is no good for them. They fall in love quickly and would willingly abandon their morals, values, and dreams if their partner asked them to. They are the kind of people who put their partnerโ€™s needs before their own, and that obsessive lovey behavior comes from someone who is in limerence.

Scorpio

If thereโ€™s one zodiac sign that is extremely possessive and obsessive over their romantic partners, itโ€™s Scorpio. Theyโ€™re incredibly passionate, intense, sensual lovers. When they set their sights on someone they find attractive, there is no way you can change their mind. In fact, they will ignore the red flags and begin to envision and create a future with someone. For them, itโ€™s often infatuation, not love.

Pisces

Pisceans are the dreamers of the zodiac. With that, they get a reputation for being โ€œdelusional.โ€ Theyโ€™re romantics and often look at life through rose-colored glasses. If they see someone attractive, they automatically jump into an โ€œIโ€™m in love with this personโ€ mindset. Theyโ€™re sensitive and introspective and will empathize with their partner, even when they show them their worst qualitiesโ€ฆ