4 Birth Months Who Are Struggling With Dating This Year

Modern dating isn’t much fun, especially for people with soft hearts.

After all, so many people send mixed signals these days. So many people aren’t looking for a serious relationship at all. At times, it feels impossible to find someone on the same page as you, let alone someone who is upfront and honest about their intentions. Here are the birth months who struggle the most with modern dating:

January

You struggle with modern dating because you wear your heart on your sleeve. You don’t see the point in pretending that you aren’t interested and playing it cool, because you would rather speak directly from the soul. You would rather blurt out whatever is on your mind than leave the other person guessing. Unfortunately, some people don’t love this approach. They would rather play mind games – but you aren’t interested in making someone wonder about your feelings. It’s much easier to get vulnerable with them and share what you’re feeling. You just wish others would do the same. You wish emotional conversations weren’t like pulling teeth. You wish others were as transparent and honest as you.

March

You struggle with modern dating because you are a romantic. You are willing to go above and beyond for whoever you’re dating, and you expect the same type of energy from them. After all, you aren’t going to be happy with staying in and watching Netflix every weekend. You want to be wooed. You want to be swept off of your feet. You are willing to go to great lengths for your partner, but they need to return the favor. You don’t want to be the only one trying, the only one  investing real energy into the relationship. You want your partner to be exerting the same level of effort as you.

August

You struggle with modern dating because you are searching for a serious, committed relationship, but so many of the people you meet are only interested in taking it slow and seeing where things go. You don’t want to come across as too demanding – but you don’t want to lie about your intentions either. After all, you don’t see the point in pursuing someone who isn’t on the same page as you. You don’t want to waste your time with a partner who clearly isn’t ready to settle down for good. You’re only interested in real, all-consuming love – but it’s surprisingly difficult to find someone who feels the same.

November

You struggle with modern dating because you love yourself too much to settle. So many people out there expect you to be okay with breadcrumbs when you’re holding out for fireworks. You aren’t going to allow others to get away with doing the bare minimum, especially when you give so much to everyone you love, which means you end up turning so many people away. But you aren’t going to apologize for having high standards. You aren’t going to let others get away with treating you terribly, just so you can say you’re in a relationship. You would rather stay single than end up with a person who disrespect you. You would never let yourself settle.