4 Zodiacs Making Pivotal Relationship Changes Right Now

VIRGO

You’re a creature of habit, Virgo, it’s a well known fact. So when you hear the words ‘relationship pivot’ your mind immediately jumps to a breakup, because you don’t know how to implement meaningful change without completely starting from scratch. But that’s part of the problem. You don’t know how to look at something and fairly assess what’s going well and what needs to change. Your pivot is about learning to acquire that skill. Where are you excelling in the relationship, and where do you need to put in more work? In what areas can you take more ownership for your own needs? How can you create that space to explore your own personhood while still remaining committed to your partner? Once you ask the right questions, the answers will come easy.

GEMINI

You said one thing yesterday, Gemini, and are now feeling the complete opposite today. The truth is, like anyone else, you’re allowed to change your mind. You just have to learn to overcome the shame you feel for doing so. You don’t have to marry the first person you go on three consecutive dates with, and you don’t have to break up with someone just because you had a really emotional fight. Feelings change. Time cools us down, allows us to reflect and reconsider, and gives us space to work out what we really want. Once you know that, it’s okay if it looks a little different from what you originally imagined. What matters most is that you stay true to yourself.

ARIES

You’re going to switch up the usual roles in your relationship, Aries, and redistribute the typical responsibilities. Maybe you’re the one who’s really good at talking about your feelings, or the one who never loses their cool in a stressful situation, but it’s time for your partner to step in and carry that load. Maybe you’re not used to cooking or getting the oil changed, but it’s your turn to rise to the occasion and lend a helping hand. Relationships challenge us to leave our comfort zones and allow us to learn from someone who has a totally different set of skills and experiences and knowledge. It’s okay to shake things up a bit. To ask each other for what it is we need.

PISCES

You have been putting so much effort into this relationship, Pisces. Holding it together, and trying to prevent every hiccup or bump in the road for fear you two might not make it through. Your pivot is about letting go, about realizing and acknowledging that you can’t avoid every conflict on your own. You’ve done everything and anything to make this work, and truly all that’s left at the end of the day is to wait and see if the other person will meet you in the middle. Instead of running yourself ragged like every day is a fire drill, wait there patiently and see what happens. You will have your answer before long, and no matter what it is, the anxiety of imagining the worst will be over.