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4 Zodiacs Who Must ‘Forgive & Forget’ In Their Next Chapter

It’s not easy to move on from heartache, whether you were put through it by a partner or an old friend or a family member. However, you owe it to yourself to heal and move on without them. In your next life chapter, you should try your hardest to forgive and forget, especially if you fall under one of these zodiac signs:

Aries

When someone betrays you, you want nothing to do with them. And that’s valid. Remember, forgiving someone doesn’t mean you should reconcile with them. You can forgive them from afar. You can make peace with what they have put you through while deciding you want to maintain your distance in order to give yourself the best chance at happiness possible. In your next life chapter, while you should continue to stay far away from the people who have hurt you, it could benefit you to forgive them. This could help you accept what has happened and move on from it instead of lingering in the hurt for longer than you deserve.

Leo

Forgiveness isn’t usually a huge problem for you – but forgetting can be difficult. When someone hurts you, it’s hard for you not to think about it. You will reread old texts from them and replay old memories in your head. You will try to pinpoint what went wrong and what could have gone differently. While it’s perfectly natural to overthink these things for a while, you don’t want to let the process continue for too long. You need to forget about them and move on. You need to stop giving them such a strong hold over your heart. Remember, there’s nothing you can do to change your past with them. It’s much better to focus on your present and your future without them. So in your next life chapter, try not to let nostalgia get you down. Try not to spend too much time thinking about yesterday when there’s so much beauty in tomorrow.

Virgo

You are an overthinker, so you struggle to move on from the people who have made a home in your heart. However, not everyone deserves your time and attention. Once they have proven they don’t belong with you, you need to accept this as the truth. In your next life chapter, you need to forgive the people who have hurt you and forget about the role you thought they would play in your life. It doesn’t matter how long you thought they were going to remain by your side because they’re gone now. You need to accept this new reality. Accept that you are living without them now – and that you are going to be better for it in the end.

Scorpio

It’s hard for you to be near someone who has caused you pain because your gut warns you to get as far away from them as possible, as quickly as possible. And that probably is the best thing for you. However, just because you have cut them out of your life doesn’t mean that you need to see them as a villain forever. Trying to find it in your heart to forgive them could be the best thing for your healing process. Remember, you don’t have to tell this person that you forgive them. They never need to know. This isn’t for them. It’s for you. It’s a way to help you move on from an unfortunate situation, to help you say goodbye once and for all.