4 Zodiacs Who Need To Grieve A Lost Dream Before A New One Transforms Their Reality In May

LIBRA

You don’t like getting worked up about things that haven’t actually happened, Libra, but that’s kind of the whole point here. You could sympathize with losing a family member, but not with grieving the relationship you wish you had with them. Life is full of these moments where we come face to face with the ways our desires conflict directly with our reality. You can cry for live you never had, but desperately wanted. In some ways, you did live it in your head, in your dreams and your fantasies. When it comes time to let it all go, you’re allowed to let those feelings go too. Wanting something in life is never anything to be ashamed of.

AQUARIUS

There are so many times we think our plans will work and they don’t, so many things we hope to win that we lose, so many rebellions that fizzle before they have a chance to form. You can grieve the potential you wholeheartedly believed in, Aquarius. You can mourn the life you so clearly visualized, but were never able to grab hold of. We’re all beholden to the choices of the people around us, which are forever outside our control. We have to learn to live with the reality of those choices, but that doesn’t mean we can’t cry over the ways we may suffer because of them. Hold your head high, and know this pain is a sign of your fighting spirit.

PISCES

Pisces, as the consummate dreamer of the zodiac, you have more to mourn than most, but that doesn’t mean your life isn’t also all the richer because of it. You imagine all kinds of friendships, careers, relationships, and lives in your head, possibilities that never exist in the real world, except in the sense that they give you something to hope for, something to keep working and searching for until you find a different flavor of those dreams you can actually pursue. Letting go of the original versions, those first drafts inside of your head is a hard but necessary step in your journey towards being more present in your own life. Once you arrive, at the destination where you belong in life, all of this struggling will have been worth it. Just trust in the process.

SAGITTARIUS

Behind every joke you tell, every laugh that comes bursting out of you, Sagittarius, is a dream you’ve buried without a proper funeral. It’s time for you to let the tears out. Process just how far you’ve come in an emotional way, instead of insisting that everything stay logical, clinical, and sterile. You may think it’s easier for you to manage everything that way, but you’re only delaying something that will spiral out of control if you leave it unaddressed. Confronting your fear of these emotions is what will help you fill the holes in your life that cause you pain. It’s the way you find true joy, not just its superficial placeholder. You deserve the real thing, and you will find it, but until then, it’s okay to grab a tissue.