The Family Role You Were Born To Run, According To Zodiac Sign
Family dynamics can be complicated – and wouldn’t they be so much easier to navigate if you knew what role you were born to play in your household?
Your zodiac sign may predict the place you have in your family. Here’s how astrology defines your spot on the family tree, and how it can help you build stronger connections with your kin.
Fire Signs: Aries, Leo, and Sagittarius
Every zodiac sign belongs to one of four natural elements: air, fire, earth, and water. These elements explain a great deal about each sign’s temperament, communication style, and more. Aries, Leo, and Sagittarius are the fire signs of the zodiac – they are feisty, passionate, and courageous.
This means that they are the “fun” ones in the family – the ones who take any dare or risk, come up with wild adventures and activities, and are the life of every party. But they can also be loud, abrasive, and out of control. If you’re the fire sign in your family, then everyone knows you’re down for a good time – but you can also be reckless, impatient, and selfish. Use your strengths by cheering everyone up, booking exciting plans and trips, and bringing that extra “sparkle” to every family event you attend. And work on your weaknesses by being a little more patient, tactful, and generous with your family.
Earth Signs: Taurus, Virgo, and Capricorn
Earth signs are the steady, stable ones in the family. If you’re a Taurus, Virgo, or Capricorn, you are predictable and routine-oriented, and that makes your family feel safe. They know they can count on you to be their rock. You may not be the most sensitive or emotional, but you have a strong, calm presence that provides a sense of security.
Your family is probably always asking you to help out, because you’re very hands-on and good at taking care of business. You see what needs to be done and you handle it, no questions asked. You’re also logical and careful, so your family members often come to you for guidance. Whether it’s moving them into a new apartment or telling them what they should do with their finances, your loved ones know you’ve always got a helping hand and sage piece of advice at the ready. You could work on being a bit more in touch with your emotions though – your family may not come to you with their relationship troubles or hurt feelings, because they fear your judgment. They also may not invite you on spontaneous trips or wild adventures because you’re so practical and set in your ways. Keep on being a steady rock for your family, but be open to trying new things and going with the flow.
Air Signs: Gemini, Libra, Aquarius
The air signs of the zodiac are Gemini, Libra, and Aquarius. They are natural peacekeepers, always playing referee between feuding family members. They’re very diplomatic and rational, so they see both sides of every story and argument. Air signs also tend to think with their heads rather than their hearts, so they can compartmentalize their feelings about a difficult situation and withhold judgment. They just want everyone to get along and see reason, and they’re very good at communicating their stance.
However, air signs can also be flaky and unreliable. If you’re an air sign, your family loves being around you – when they get the chance. You’re not only very busy, but also quite prone to canceling or changing plans, so it can be hard to build a strong connection with you. You’re also in your own head a lot and struggle with anxiety, which can rub off on your loved ones. Keep playing the peacemaker (as long as it doesn’t disturb your own peace), but try to be more consistent and reliable in showing up for your family.
Water Signs: Cancer, Scorpio, and Pisces
The water signs, Cancer, Scorpio, and Pisces, are the emotional, sensitive ones in the family. They feel everything deeply, and since they’re so empathetic, they always want to protect other people’s feelings. If you’re a water sign, you create an emotional safe space for your loved ones. Your family members know they can open up to you about any emotional problem, and you will help them without judgment.
You’re also highly intuitive – you can sense when something’s wrong. You’ll look into your family members’ eyes and know when they’re upset or lying, or you might call them when your sixth sense tingles and you can just feel that they need you.
However, water signs may lash out when they’re upset – your empathy also enables you to hit where it really hurts. You know what bothers your loved ones the most, and you usually avoid disturbing them. But when you feel betrayed or disrespected, you might use your emotional intelligence as a weapon. It’s great that you’re so sweet and caring – don’t let your family tell you that you’re “too sensitive,” and don’t let them walk all over you. But also look out for your tendency to attack when your boundaries are crossed. If you establish and uphold better boundaries to begin with, you won’t be tempted to lash out.