5 Zodiacs Who Wish They Were Spending Christmas With An Ex
The holidays are ‘supposed’ to be a magical time of year when everyone is celebrating and spreading cheer. However, some people feel lonely around this time of year. It’s perfectly natural to miss people who used to be in your world, whether they are relatives, friends, or even exes. Here are some zodiacs who secretly wish they were spending the holidays with a certain ex:
Normally, you’re perfectly fine without your ex, but the holidays are a nostalgic time. It’s hard not to think about what you were doing this time last year, and comparing and contrasting. The couples kissing beneath the mistletoe and sending out cute holiday cards aren’t helping. You feel like everything has been reminding you of your ex lately. It’s a struggle not to reach out to them. But you need to remember that you can achieve happiness on your own.
You can’t get enough of holiday songs and rom-coms about cozy winter cottages. Since you feel like this time of year is extra romantic (and therefore feel extra alone right now), you have been missing your ex. However, you need to remember that the relationship didn’t work out for a reason. If you were still together, you wouldn’t be celebrating a happy holiday season. You would be arguing, or you would be feeling distant.
You have trouble moving on because you are set in your routine. Once you consider someone an important part of your world, you don’t want to remove them. You want to continue your traditions forever. But your ex is gone, and change is not an inherently negative thing. Even though this might be the first holiday that you’re alone in a while, you can still enjoy it. You don’t need your ex. You have plenty of other people who love you, who want to share the season with you.
Normally, you’re not the sentimental type, but this time of the year brings out another side of you. It makes you want to hang up your fun-loving adventurous ways and settle down with a partner you can snuggle up to by the fire. It would be nice to have someone to bring home to the family, or to create your own family alongside, but you need to remember the person you’re meant to do that with is not your ex. Not the person who caused you heartache. Not the person who made you feel so insecure.
Logically, you understand that you’re better off without this person — but your heart is winning out lately. You can’t stop thinking about the good times you shared with this person and you can’t stop wondering whether they’re following the same traditions with someone else. You’ve been tempted to send them a check in text or a simple Merry Christmas, but you need to remember that a text isn’t harmless. Ask yourself whether you really want to associate with them again, whether you want to wait for a text back, whether you want to open this can of worms or simply enjoy the holidays without them.