Encouragement For 4 Zodiacs Who Feel Stranded In A Giant Mess Of Their Own Making In May

SAGITTARIUS

You’re feeling left behind this month, Sagittarius, like everyone around you has found their life’s purpose or passion and direction and you’re still stranded somewhere you arrived at long ago, unintentionally. There are three things you have to keep in mind to make it out of your own mess. One, stop looking to everyone else for your own answers. We’re all responsible for our own happiness, and the way that fits into our lives is different for everyone. Two, you’re not as stranded as you think you are. This thing you feel mired in is only a bus stop on the greyhound journey of life. What feels like forever is merely a break to get out and stretch your legs. Third, and finally, you can always get up and do something about your own circumstances. Action is always the secret weapon you have in your own back pocket.

VIRGO

You have to have some compassion for yourself, Virgo. You feel like a failure, and have been comparing yourself to people you also see as failures, but it’s time to take a closer look in the mirror, and at others this month. You’ve been evaluating people with criteria that doesn’t accurately capture the endurance and fortitude they’ve exhibited in their own life. What you see as a failure, is someone who hasn’t given up yet, who has been knocked down time and time again, and is willing to get back up and keep trying. You think you’re the same, because in this moment, you find yourself knocked down right next to them, but this is your chance to learn a lesson from their unwavering commitment, and reinvest in yourself and your biggest dreams all over again.

PISCES

You’re still in the self-pity phase of a growth cycle, and that’s okay Pisces. You can’t force the grief to end, but that doesn’t mean you’ll be stuck in it forever either. You can have your emo moment, and unload you burden on listening ears, and maybe in that vocalization of your own feelings, you can learn to be less ashamed of them, and in that acceptance, begin to let them go. You don’t have to feel guilty anymore, or second guess how a different approach may have changed the outcome. What’s done is done, and you’re allowed to move forward. You’re allowed to not let one moment define the entirety of the rest of your life. It’s just a scrape, not a tattoo. Not everything is as permanent as you think.

LIBRA

You felt all your life like you had to follow the rules, Libra, until suddenly it all got thrown out the window and you found yourself feeling like a bandit or an outlaw, and everyone’s opinion of you seemed to change. But your moral compass never wavered, and it wasn’t you who did the changing, it was everyone else, but it happened so fast it just felt like an optical illusion. When you stop worrying about reversing the perception, about ridding yourself of the labels and stares, you can start to live your most authentic life. One where you have no regrets, where you don’t have to worry about doing the right thing, because you’ll already trust that you have. Without even needing to think about it.