Why You Attract The Wrong People, Based On Your Birth Month

January

You attract the wrong people because you think you can fix them. You enjoy fixing things on a daily basis, whether it’s your broken toaster or your loose toilet seat, and you have the same drive in relationships. You can see the red flags, you can see the problems from day one, but you stick around because you think that you can fix that person and you try to bring out their best potential even if they’re not willing to. You don’t give up easily either so it takes you a very long time to give up on somebody, but you eventually do when you’ve tried everything. 

February 

You attract the wrong people because you think you can turn anything into a fairytale. You’re a dreamer with a vivid imagination and you love living in your own bubble, as unrealistic as it may seem, so when you meet someone who doesn’t check all your boxes, you live in a fantasy that you two complete each other, that you two are capable of living a beautiful love story, against all odds. You probably also think of eloping or just moving to a new city together to start over. You tend to give the wrong people more than one chance because you believe in comebacks, second chances, and the universe conspiring to bring you two back together. 

March

You attract the wrong people because you trust easily. If you meet someone and you feel good around them, you’ll probably tell them your whole life story and share private details with them. You think everyone has a good heart so you speak so openly about everything and you give people your keys very early on, and that means they can take advantage of you. You’re literally handing them the keys to your heart, and unfortunately, not everyone has the best intentions. 

April 

You attract the wrong people because you like the game. You love a challenge and you enjoy the mixed signals and the chase way too much. You’re a pro at waiting a few hours to text back and driving the person crazy with your hot and cold behavior, however that only works with the people who aren’t always genuine and who are not looking for something deeper with you. Your games tend to push away those who really care and attract those who can be manipulative and deceitful. 

May

You attract the wrong people because you pick the ones who give you stability and comfort, even if you don’t really like them or have feelings for them. You play it too safe when it comes to your emotions that sometimes you don’t really give yourself a chance to fall in love and you pick the ones who like you more than you like them so you don’t get hurt. You pick with your mind, not with your heart, which has its pros, but it also denies you of truly experiencing the wonderful feeling of being madly in love with someone. 

June

You attract the wrong people because you’re impatient and always in a hurry to jump to the next phase of your life. You want to fall in love now and get married by a certain age. You have a strict timeline for everything and sometimes that makes you a bit impulsive in picking the right person for you. You don’t always take your time to know the person before deciding that you want to commit to them and that often makes you fall for someone for all the wrong reasons.

July 

You attract the wrong people because you’re a hopeless romantic. You romanticize even the wrong relationships. You think that love is worth fighting for and you forgive those who broke your heart more than once. People know that you will always be there for them and you will welcome them back into your life no matter how many times they mess up, so they end up taking advantage of your big heart and your kindness. Your vulnerability is your strength, but not everyone appreciates it. 

August 

You attract the wrong people because you love exploring all options. You don’t have a certain type or criteria—you’re open to dating anyone who intrigues you without really assessing if they’re a good match for you. Your adventurous streak makes you take bigger risks when it comes to love, even if the stakes are high. 

September 

You attract the wrong people because you hate being alone. You don’t know how to be alone and you always want someone to hang out with and talk to you when you’re bored. This makes you choose people who you’re not fully sure of but who are convenient for you now or are available when you need them to be. This often keeps you stuck in situations that do not bring you happiness because you’re afraid of ending them and being alone again. 

October 

You attract the wrong people because you don’t like approaching people—you wait to be approached and that often limits your options. You wait to be pursued and you wait for the other person to do most of the work, at least in the beginning, which stops you from going after who your heart truly desires. You don’t like to take risks and you don’t give everyone a chance to get to know you, so you hold yourself back. 

November 

You attract the wrong people because you love your freedom and you don’t want someone to put pressure on you or rules or labels. You don’t want to get too attached to anyone so you attract those who are not looking for anything serious or those who just want a fling or a temporary romance. You get bored easily so you don’t give people enough time to get to know you and you don’t give yourself a chance to delve deeper into the relationship because you don’t want to get hurt.

December 

You attract the wrong people because you believe that you can help them become who they’re meant to be. No matter how bruised and broken they are, you are ready to go above and beyond for someone you love even if they’re draining you. You are willing to put your needs aside and compromise a lot for your partner, even if they won’t do the same for you, and that often depletes you and leaves you feeling empty.