15 Signs Your Person Has Fallen Out Of Love

“Silence. More interested in their phone. In fact most of their pleasant facial expressions are experienced with their phone rather than with you.” — PoorGradPleaseHelp

“They often change the topic when you say things about the future.” — Jantripp

“When you’re the one reaching out (calling/texting) and you decide to stop and get radio silence for two weeks.” — Turtle9015

“Spending A LOT OF MONEY on items that they genuinely don’t need (this may reflect a deeper unhappiness in life, the relationship is an extension of that discontent).” — lanadelpenis

“When you want to talk to them about things, and they’re not interested. When you want to do things with them, and they’re annoyed. When you go out together and see friends together, and they complain about you in front of them. When you open up and they shut down. When you have to guess what they’re thinking or feeling because they won’t tell you.” — dxrey65

“When they stop laughing at things you do that they used to love. You can see it in their face too, that they are just done, and it’s heartbreaking.” — Kateejo88

“They stop asking you questions about you. When you first start going out they want to know everything about you; what’s your dream job, your first memory, what do you think about x,y,z etc. Over time it becomes situational; they will ask you meaningful questions when they go through something noteworthy; I regret dropping out of college, do you? Did it feel like losing a family member when your dog died? etc. The love is gone when it becomes purely functional; what do you want for dinner tonight? Do you need a ride to this or that event? etc. You can have a conversation where you ask hundreds of deep and interesting questions; they may be content waxing lyrical answering, but when they don’t ask about you, it’s gone, I’m afraid.” — Vyzantinist

“You stop being a priority. And that’s not to say you always have to be the number one priority all the time, but it should be reasonable. If your SO keeps going out with friends instead of spending any time with you for weeks, then maybe you need to have a talk.” — MentallyPsycho

“When they don’t make an effort to call or text. When they do things they know that hurt you. When they just don’t make an effort honestly.” — michixlien

“Leaving home for an unusual amount of work/social obligations, bringing up old arguments from years ago, and general irritability towards you. These are actually signs of cheating but I think that’s a decent sign of someone no longer in love.” — sleeze02

“Emotional distance matches the physical distance. No desire to be around you anymore, sleeping in separate rooms or at separate times, no cuddling.” — PoorGradPleaseHelp

“She stopped saying ‘I love you’ in the same way. She’d only say it as a kind of joke, like if I messed something up, ‘I love you, but look at how you made the bed.’” — just_let_go_

“When you’re physically in the same room, yet you feel as though they’re far away – that your presence is ‘incidental’ because their thoughts and affections are elsewhere.” — Back2Bach

“Lack of time for you is the biggest red flag, romantic or not, family or not, friend or not.” — gobigred3562

“I felt him losing interest. No more cuddly conversations, irritability when I asked him questions, no more little gifts or notes. I felt his lack of love for a full year before he finally just decided to break up, I was surprised because I just assumed that’s what happens to relationships after a few years of being around the other person.” — dianagama