4 Birth Months Who Struggle To Make Friends As Adults

It’s not easy to maintain friendships as an adult — and it’s even more difficult to find new friends as you age. Especially if you’re stuck working from home the majority of the time. Of course, some people have an easier time with relationship building than others. Here are some of the birth months who have the most trouble meeting new people and forming new friendships as an adult:

May

People born in May take a while to warm up to new people, which is why it was easier for them to make friends when they were younger. Seeing the same people at school day after day gave them an opportunity to slowly get to know someone, to slowly open up and develop a true friendship. But now that they’re older, it’s harder and harder to meet people with similar interests. Even when they put themselves out there and go to events where they will meet likeminded people, they have trouble striking up conversations and asking for phone numbers to continue that conversation another time. Making the first move — even when it’s not romantic at all — is intimidating for them. Even though they have so much to give, it’s hard for them to find new friends.

September

People born in September are incredibly productive and spend most of their waking hours working. Since they don’t always have the healthiest work/life balance, it’s hard for them to find time to meet new people. After all, they don’t interact with many strangers outside of their coworkers. And since they’re such professionals, they won’t always want to hang out with coworkers outside of the office. Although people born during this month make amazing friends, they have trouble getting these relationships started. They have trouble making the time to meet fresh faces.

February

People born during February aren’t going to change in order to fit in with others. They are unapologetically themselves and don’t care what others have to say about it. Since they are so independent, they don’t mind hanging out on their own, but this can cause them to isolate themselves more than they should. Even when they want to go out and meet new friends, they have trouble finding people who have the same interests as them. While they have plenty of online friends, they don’t have many people who they can hang out with in person, who live close by and like the same things they like.

November

People born during November have trouble making friends as adults because they expect the worst from others. When someone is nice to them, they will wonder whether they’re being tricked. They have trouble accepting that someone is being nice to them out of the goodness of their heart, that they don’t have any ulterior motives. Although people born during this month are great listeners and conversationalists once you get to know them, they are standoffish early on. They are uber protective of their heart and their time, so they rarely let new people into their circle.