4 Zodiacs Who Will Find Love But Still Need To Figure Their Lives Out In June

LEO

Your single days are numbered, Leo, but before you dive headfirst into the celebration, you need to ask yourself exactly what you think a partner is going to change about your life. You have put too much pressure on yourself when it comes to walking into a room or showing up to an event alone. You think a relationship is going to save your self-esteem, is going to be the yardstick by which you measure your worth, but when the real problem is the way you constantly compare yourself to others, nothing is ever going to seem like enough. You only felt self-conscious about being alone, because you convinced yourself that everyone with a date was better than you. You will always be able to find something that someone has that you do not. Deal with these unhealthy thought patterns now, before you let them extend to the one you love. They deserve to be valued for who they are, not an attempt to keep up with the Jones’.

TAURUS

You’ve convinced yourself it will just take the right person, Taurus, to get you to settle down. To get you to care more about a mortgage than girl-mathing your way to the European leg of the Eras Tour. You’ve conflated love with the ability to change your personal preference, confused a soulmate for a sort of Invisalign of the soul. We all bend and learn to compromise for the right person, as they do for us, but that doesn’t mean making a total one-eighty from everything we think and feel. Instead of hoping a relationship will change you, you need to learn to stand proudly on your own two feet and follow a plan of your own making. Both parties need a solid understanding of who are before they can embark on a journey of lifelong partnership. If you can’t confidently tell someone who you are and what you want, how can you ever expect them to choose the real “you”?

CANCER

You’re looking at love and marriage as a clean slate, Cancer. The opportunity to join the family of your dreams, and make up for any shortcomings you see in the one you were born into. The problem with that approach is that while you can build your own unique relationship with in-laws, you aren’t “absorbed” by your partner’s life. You don’t acquire all of their childhood memories, their upbringing, their nature, or their nurture. The difficult feelings you are dealing with will still be there, may even be exacerbated by the comparison that’s sure to follow your exposure to different relationship dynamics than the ones you’re familiar with. You can’t erase your own past, but you can learn and grow from it. You are the only one who can work through your own issues though, you can’t place that pressure on someone else to fix it all for you.

AQUARIUS

You think love is the cure for loneliness, Aquarius, and while to some extent, it can ameliorate the situation, it can’t eradicate it completely. Your need for companionship and community cannot be satisfied by a single relationship. You’re going to have to do the hard work of putting yourself out there, of finding commonality with strangers, and from those tiny seeds, nurturing and fostering the connection into a thriving friendship. It is going to take time, and feel more difficult than you want it to, even if you make it look easy to all the bystanders. The right partner will encourage you and listen to every high and low of the process, but ultimately your healing will come through the work. We may be born and die alone, but Aquarius there is so much life in between the two, and so many people out there for you to fill that life with. Don’t stop at a romantic partner.