3 Birth Months Most Likely To Get Back With An Old Love

Getting back together with an old love usually isn’t the best idea. You don’t want to end up in the same cycle you were originally in. Not unless the two of you take enough time apart to grow, and realize that you are able to give each other the things now that you were unable to before. Here are the birth months most likely to grow and get back together with an old love:

October

You aren’t going to make the same mistake twice. If you’ve parted ways with someone who is not good for you, then you are going to keep your distance. Even if it’s hard. Even if you still love them. You are smart enough and strong enough to do what is best for yourself in the end. However, you are dedicated to self-growth and you are big on forgiveness. So if someone has apologized to you and has shown that they’ve genuinely changed and is not only talking the talk, you are willing to open your heart up to them again. You are willing to give them another shot because you believe people can change for the better. You just have to be careful that you aren’t the only one who has grown, that this person really means what they’re saying and isn’t going to shatter your heart a second time. Don’t let your feelings for them distract you from the facts.

March

Once you fall in love with someone, the feelings never fully go away. There’s always a piece of you that will still love and care about them. Which is why you are open to the idea of dating again. You aren’t going to turn down the opportunity without really thinking it through. If you have grown and your ex has grown into new versions of yourself, versions that are now compatible and won’t snap back to having the same exact arguments that you had before, then you are willing to give love another shot. You know timing is important, so maybe you originally met them at the wrong time and it will work out now that you’ve both matured. However, you need to make sure your emotions aren’t getting the best of you, and this person isn’t taking advantage of you. Also make sure that enough time has passed for growth to even be possible. They couldn’t have changed much in a few months. Real change takes time. And a ton of effort.

June

You aren’t afraid to admit when you’ve made a mistake. So your chances of getting back together with an old love are pretty high. You don’t want to push the right person away again twice. But you don’t want to deal with the wrong person twice either. You need to remember why you parted from this person in the first place. Then ask yourself what has changed. What will make the relationship work this time around when it failed the first time? If you don’t have an answer, if nothing has actually changed, then history is only going to repeat itself. Make sure you aren’t the only one who has grown and matured. Make sure you aren’t going to end up carrying the weight of the relationship alone before you commit to this decision.