4 Birth Months Who Take Forever To Cut The Wrong People Out

Some people aren’t going to let you hurt them twice. They will cut you out of their life the second that they feel disrespected. But others will hesitate to walk away from a relationship that held so much meaning to them. They will give out chance after chance, even if the other person doesn’t deserve it. Here are the birth months who take forever to cut people out because they would rather try to fix the relationship first:

March

If you were born in March, you get super attached to the people you love. They mean everything to you, so the last thing you want to do is walk away, even if there are several bumps along the road. After all, you are willing to put in the work to fix the relationship. You are willing to come to compromises, have serious discussions, and fight for this person. However, not every relationship is capable of being fixed. Especially if you’re the only one making an effort. Unfortunately, it can take you a long time to realize that the other person isn’t on the same page as you, that they aren’t as invested as keeping your friendship or relationship alive as you are. And when that happens, you owe it to yourself to leave. You deserve so much better.

July

If you were born in July, you’re a nurturer. You feel like it’s your responsibility to take care of everyone. And you feel like it’s your fault whenever relationships turn sour. You are willing to do everything within your power to fix what’s broken, which is why it takes you way too long to cut out the wrong people. You stick by their side, assuming you’re the problem when they’re really the one to blame. Or maybe no one is to blame. Maybe you simply aren’t compatible anymore. Either way, nothing you do on your own is going to be able to change things. But what you can do is choose to walk away.

August

If you were born in August, you are incredibly loyal. And you’re nostalgic too. So if someone you love has been treating you poorly, you’re going to think back to all the wonderful times that you have shared in the past. You’re going to stick by their side because they were once such a positive part of your world. However, you can’t keep living in the past. You can’t cling onto the wrong people, simply because you have history with them. You need to recognize when the relationship has run its course, when you are no longer good for each other. It can take you a long time to walk away from people who have been hurting you because you’re still picturing the old them, even though the current them is breaking your heart.

October

If you were born in October, you are a big believer in forgiveness. And that is beautiful. You should be proud of your willingness to see other points of view, your kindness and open-mindedness. But you need to be careful with how many chances you give out. You tend to take way too long to cut the wrong people out because you believe people can change. You keep giving them the benefit of the doubt, long after they have proven that they aren’t interested in changing, that they are never going to rise to your standards. It’s okay to let go. It’s okay to choose yourself for once.