Encouraging Words For Each Zodiac Sign On 12/12
In numerology, 1212 is an angel number that emphasizes encouragement toward growth and change. On December 12th (12/12), itโs every zodiac signโs time to take a step out of their comfort zone. Embrace the risk of something new thatโs enticed you for a while but youโve been too scared to reach for. The universe is guiding you towards that risk now; it will protect you during this daring leap into the unknown.
Aries
โThere is so much life after this season of hurt. There are so many good things to experience going forward. You wonโt be here in the pain forever, and you wonโt feel like this forever. There are cities to travel to. Friends to make. Countless books whose pages are just waiting for you to turn them. New people to explore the world with. New people to love. There are beautiful days filled with sunshine where you will wonder how you can feel so alive. There are rainy days where you will take comfort in a hot cup of tea and a poem that hugs you. There will be opportunities. Growth. Stillness.
There is music you havenโt danced to yet. There will be deep laughter you canโt even imagine right now.
Lazy days where you stay in bed and luxuriate in the quiet. And days full of adventure that will leave you breathless and exhilarated. There will be new levels of you to meet. Each extraordinary one waiting under a Layer you need to strip back. Keep going. There is an abundance of life for you to live.โ
Parm K.C., โYou Will Feel Whole Againโ
Taurus
โNew Beginnings
I know that moving forward isnโt easy, but I also know that itโs possible. I know your heart might not be ready to let go just yet, but I also know that itโs necessary. I know that youโre wondering if you will find happiness again, but I also know that you can. I know that itโs hard to see past this moment, but this moment is not forever. If people can be temporary in our lives, then so too can feelings. Feel everything you need to feel at this moment, as this feeling is necessary for your healing. Hold onto the hope that you can carry yourself through this pain and uncertainty, until the days feel a little brighter and your soul feels a little lighter.โ
Charlotte Freeman, โThis Was Meant To Find You (When You Needed it Most)
Gemini
โIt took me a long time to realize that not everything in life is meant to be a beautiful story. Not every person we feel something deep and moving with is meant to make a home within us, is meant to be a forever.
Sometimes, people come into our lives to teach us how to love; and sometimes, people come into our lives to teach us how not to love. How not to settle, how not to shrink ourselves ever again. Yes, sometimes people leave-but thatโs okay, because their lessons always stay, and that is what matters. That is what remains.โ
Bianca Sparacino, โThe Strength In Our Scarsโ
Cancer
โHow do you heal when you canโt remove yourself from whatโs causing the pain?
You learn boundaries. You learn that none of us can insulate ourselves fully from the ache of the world, from other broken hearts, from inevitable stress. You learn that the journey was never about that, anyway; itโs only ever been about strengthening yourself from the inside out.
Training your mind to be more conscious of what it entertains. To act not out of compulsion or obligation, but true choiceโout of self-preservation, and self-love. You look inward at what pieces of yourself you see within those who bother you most deeply, and you work on healing those pieces. You get better at communicating what you need.
You make the changes that need to occur within your own life, and then you notice what gently alleviates the tension.
You notice that the situation hasnโt lightened, but you have.
You have changed what moment you meet.โ
Brianna Wiest, โThe Pivot Yearโ
Leo
โHow To Stop Overthinking
F*ckingEverythingTake a deep breath. Hold it. Count to five. Exhale. Repeat as often as necessary. Talk it out. Take a break. Take a walk.
Take some time for yourself. Ask for help. Remember that no one is thinking about you as much as you are thinking about you. Consider this to be a relief. Understand most things are forgivable, including you. Stop defining yourself by your mistakes and simply learn from it all instead. Stop judging other people for their shortcomings and forgive them while youโre at it. Sit with the quiet. Check the facts.
Check yourself. Check the front door once. Choose com-passion. Remind yourself that preparing for the worst does not make you more prepared for the worst; it just makes you suffer. Trust that you can get through anything that comes your way. Trust your judgment. Trust your heart. Live from a place of hope, not fear.โ
Molly Burford, โMoments to Hold Closeโ
Virgo
โNo more watering yourself down to make them more comfortable.
No more silencing yourself to protect their egos.
Itโs so hard to speak up for yourself as an adult when you grew up feeling like it was safer to bury your feelings and hide your uncomfortable truths.
Itโs so hard to imagine that people will accept and embrace every part of who you are when youโve been shrinking yourself for so longโbut when youโre willing to step outside of your comfort zone, rediscover your voice, and accept every part of yourself in full, your life starts to transform in beautiful ways that would otherwise never be possible.
Rediscovering yourself can be hard, time-consuming, frightening, and draining. Donโt be afraid of the discomfort that comes with it. Donโt be afraid to seek out the professional and community support that you need as you navigate this life-altering process. Donโt be afraid to take the first step. Donโt be afraid to startโbecause the rewards that come in the form of personal growth, happiness, and fulfillment are well worth the effort.โ
Michell C. Clark, โEyes On The Roadโ
Libra
โFull Hands
If you hold on too tightly to people who have already let you go, you wonโt have the chance to grab hold of all the beautiful things that are actually meant for you.
โLet go.โ
Charlotte Freeman, โEverything Youโll Ever Need (You Can Find Within Yourselfโ
Scorpio
โInstead of focusing on how far you still have to go, take some time today to remind yourself of how far youโve already come. Yes, you might still be struggling. And yes, you may still have some distance to cover, but those things donโt discount the progress youโve already made. Healing takes time. Life takes time. Itโs not a process that can be rushed.
Youโll get there when you get there. And youโre allowed to give yourself that time.
Beating yourself up for not being further along does absolutely nothing to help get you closer to where you want to be. It makes you feel inadequate and ashamed, and it keeps you stuck. So stop fixating on how much farther you need to go and start acknowledging how incredible it is that youโve gotten as far as you have. That despite how difficult this path has been, you havenโt given up. That even though youโve felt hopeless and defeated, you keep showing up every day and trying your best. Because thatโs what matters.
I know it can be so painful to feel stuck. I know youโre tired.
And I know that itโs hard not to feel ashamed if itโs taking you longer. But you have to let go of this idea that you should be further ahead. Trust that itโs okay to be where you are. Trust that you wonโt be here forever. Trust that you will get to where you need to be in your own time. Youโre doing the best you can each day to fight the darkness you feel and take steps forward in your process, and thatโs all you can ask of yourself. Itโs enough. No matter where you are in your journey, youโre enough.โ
Daniell Koepke, โDaring To Take Up Spaceโ
Sagittarius
โStop thinking about him.
Stop watching the clock. Stop checking your phone. Stop fantasizing about whatโs going to happen or whatโs not going to happen or when itโs going to happen or if itโs going to happen.
Stop wasting moments of your life waiting around for someone else to show up. Donโt you see? Time is passing and the world is moving with or without you.
Do you really want to spend your time waiting on someone else?
Do you really want to spend your life existing for someone else?
Release your worries and go live your life.
There is a world out there waiting for your attention.โ
Dรฉjร Rae, โCome Home To Yourselfโ
Capricorn
โWe Are Meant For More
Often we simmer too long on the negative feelings we endure depression, anxiety, stress, unhappiness, sadness-and we tend to forget that these instances where we feel the lowest, when we feel like were underwater with no oxygen in sight, where we think our goals cannot be achieved or that the person we hoped we would become will only exist in our mindsโare actually beautiful reminders that we are meant for more. These cues show us that our current lifestyles, experiences, and mindsets are not serving or feeding our souls.
So rather than focusing on detaching from these lower feelings, we must first understand that they are there to teach us, to guide us, and to enlighten us. Only then will we realize that we are meant to live a life that is more abundant, joyful, and blissful. And it is in that moment where we can choose to change our realities.
Karin Hadadan, โBeauty In The Stillnessโ
Aquarius
โThe truth is, if someone wants to be in your life, they will be. They will be, whether their day was hectic or not. They will be, no matter who texts whom first. Theyโll be here when life is beautiful and you laugh together until your guts hurt, but theyโll also be here when life is difficult.
Theyโll be here on those lonely nights when you canโt fall asleep, and those mornings when you canโt get up because your heart weighs too much. They will be there when itโs easy and when itโs not.
If someone wants to be in your life, youโll never have to doubt it. Youโll just know. There wonโt be any mixed signals. There wonโt be tears about things between you being so much better yesterday than they are today. There wonโt be confusion, and you wonโt have to wonder how your relationship can be a fairytale one day and a drama the next.
Let today be the day you stop lying to yourself. Let it be the day you move on, the day you forgive yourself for loving them too deeply, and for investing time and pieces of your heart in someone who wasnโt ready for your love.โ
Eileen Lamb, โBe The Oneโ
Pisces
โYou are brave for walking your body out of bed and for trying to do your best every single day.
You are doing your best. Others donโt need to understand what your best is. You are brave for trying to move on. You are brave for forgiving that person that seemed impossible to forgive. You are brave for giving up on that thing that you never dreamed you would have to give up on. You are brave for loving after love broke you. You are brave for continuing to keep going. Keep going. You are brave for opening up and speaking about what felt impossible to speak about. You are brave for reaching out for help. You are brave for driving yourself to the appointments you didnโt have the energy to drive yourself to. You are brave for trying new things that terrify you and donโt make sense. You are brave for moving through the unknown. You are brave for fighting for yourself and what you believe is true. You are a brave soul that deserves to live peacefully in this world.
You are brave.โ
Jacqueline Whitney, โAll That You Deserveโ
