The Romantic Connection You Secretly Crave, Based On Your Birth Month
Although you might not want to admit it, these are the kinds of romantic connections that you crave.
January
Youâre always the bold one when it comes to relationships and youâre known for going for what you want. Thatâs why you secretly wish someone would do the same for you. You want someone who sees you and immediately knows that they want to win your heart. It certainly would feel nice to feel chased for a change, huh?
February
You want the kind of romance where youâre swept off your feet. The idea of your partner insisting that you relinquish all control to them is kind of hot, to be honest. And if you can actually trust them in this scenario without worrying about? Yeah, thatâs relationship gold.
March
You dream of finding someone who can pick you up and throw you around. But, you know, in a sexy way. All those steamy scenes heating up the pages of saucy romance novels? Yeah, you dream of living that scenario in real life. And hey, if anyone is strong enough to go for it, itâs you. Live the sexy life youâve always wanted.
April
Because you often hold so many things in, you need a connection with someone who is emotionally mature. If their EQ is through the roof, your heart will be firmly in the clouds. Sure, you might have a hard time actually showing them how much you like how easily they share their emotions, but theyâll likely understand it without you even having to.
May
Companionship is where itâs at. You crave falling in love with your best friend, but thatâs no secret. What you donât always tell people is that you sometimes miss the romance that happens when youâre swept off your feet. Let your best-friend-turned-partner know that you want some spontaneous date nights and youâre well on your way to that dream.
June
Youâre romantic as hell, which often means that youâre always the one doing the wooing. You find yourself in imbalanced relationships where you do the work to make your partner feel special and that same energy isnât reflected back. You secretly want to date someone whoâs just as much of a sappy romantic as you. Basically you want to live the fun honeymoon, but 24/7 and indefinitely.
July
Youâre sick of always getting hurt and often spend more time thinking about your evil exes than you probably should. Thatâs why you secretly crave a simple summer fling. Maybe you could find someone hot while on vacation to make sure it doesnât go any further than five great days together. Now, will you actually go for that kind of romantic fling? Signs point to no.
August
You just want someone who will both let you plan everything but will also have opinions when you ask them where they want to go for dinner. An active partner, but who doesnât mind relinquishing control to you. You know in your heart that this isnât the power play that it sounds like, but you keep it to yourself becauseâŚyeah, it doesnât sound great.
September
Youâre looking for someone who will treat you like a delicate flower. They can hold your heart in their hands and never bruise it. After all, youâre sensitive and bruise easily. But you keep this to yourself because you feel itâs way too unrealistic to want. Is it, though? Thinking itâs unrealistic to be with someone who cherishes your feelings is actually manifesting the wrong thing for you, Iâm afraid.
October
You wish that love could just find you. You wouldnât have to do any work to find it. Youâd just be at the bookstore one day and you bump hands as you both reach for the same book, meet-cute style. Which means you probably put little to no effort into dating apps, much to the annoyance of the friends who just want to see you happy. But sometimes rom-com love happens in real lifeâwhy shouldnât it happen to you?
November
Everyone you try to date never quite measures up. They just arenât smart enoughâthey donât have the sharp wit to go toe-to-toe with your sass. Thatâs why youâre always fantasizing about the person who gives you a run for your money. Youâre not looking for an âopposites attractâ scenario. You basically want to date yourself.
December
Honestly, you wish you could put more work into finding someone. You donât like when it feels too easy. Itâs almost as if theyâre not right for you if they just fall in your lap. But you keep this to yourself because itâs mighty annoying to everyone else to hear about how easy it usually is for you to find someone whoâs enamored with you.