This Is How Each Zodiac Finds Closure
ARIES
Since Aries are often the ones to initiate boundaries or separation, closure can be a difficult topic for them. While, on one hand, they’re happy with the choices they’ve made, on the other hand, they can’t help but feel that maybe they acted too rashly. Aries finally obtain closure when they accept that regardless of whether or not they should’ve put their foot down, what’s done is done and the result is what they have to live with. It may sound harsh, but acceptance frequently is.
TAURUS
Being a fixed sign, Tauruses have difficulty acclimating to change. Whether they’re recovering from a breakup, thinking about former friendships, or analyzing poor interactions with family members, the process of removing themselves from who they once were is a painful one. Though it may feel impossible, Tauruses find closure when they lean into the change that they fear so much. In the excitement of reinvention, they are able to put the past to rest.
GEMINI
Geminis put a lot of stake in communication, regardless of each relationship’s status or nature. Therefore, a conversation is often key in order for them to experience true closure. This process might cause mutual discomfort, especially considering a lot of folks aren’t receptive to post-relationship chats, but it’s only through asking questions and being honest that Gemini can accept when a situation has ended, and know they’re free to move on.
CANCER
In order for a Cancer to find closure, they have to get to the root of their hurt. More than just analyzing the surface-level issues that have led to them needing closure in the first place, Cancers must give themselves grace and interrogate their own reactions. Since their immediate response to conflict can often be overshadowed by their sensitive nature and tendency to overthink, it’s only through identifying what’s holding them back that they can find peace moving forward.
LEO
It’s a terrible answer, but it’s often true–what Leos need more than anything is time. Weeks and months and years of separation from whatever has hurt them. There are small steps they can take in the meantime to find closure, like being strict about lingering in the past for too long and shifting their attention to hobbies that fulfill them, but, overall, Leos just need to be so far away from a painful situation that they can barely remember how it ached. Then, they can let go.
VIRGO
Logic is Virgo’s best friend and this comes into play with their pursuit of closure. Virgos need to understand what went wrong, why, where, and how they could’ve prevented it if they’d had more information available to them. Virgos need to know that there was meaning to what’s happened to them, and meticulously combing through the past is sometimes the only way to accomplish that. Closure comes with being prepared for the future.
LIBRA
Taking a step back in order to reflect is something that Libras tend to avoid. Their lives are filled with love, in so many forms, and a genuine joy for the world they live in, and they don’t want to rock the boat when everything feels okay. But genuine healing is only possible when pain is acknowledged. Libras are able to find closure when they take the time to process what’s happened to them. If not, it will linger under the surface for years to come. An ache they can’t quite diagnose.
SCORPIO
Opening up is something that Scorpios circumvent whenever possible. Though they can often identify why they’re stuck in a situation, they also get trapped in their own heads. Without outside feedback, they can send themselves into dangerous thought spirals and only do themselves more harm. Scorpios must reach out to trusted loved ones about how they’re feeling if they really want to find closure. The validation they’ll find will be more healing than they realize.
SAGITTARIUS
Sagittariuses will often hold on for longer than is necessary, in the hopes that things will go back to the way they were and they won’t have to go through the healing process at all. Unfortunately for them, this scenario is rarely the outcome. More likely, Sagittariuses feel isolated in their pursuit of closure and can’t fully detach themselves from the good memories. Total detoxes can be helpful in these situations. Through separation, Sagittariuses can accept their new life.
CAPRICORN
While generally uncomfortable with public displays of emotion, that doesn’t mean Capricorns don’t have feelings. In fact, they have rich interior landscapes which surface when they’re safely alone. But by reserving their emotions for specific times of day in specific environments, Capricorns do more harm than good. When you put limits on your emotions, you train yourself to shut them down whenever it’s inconvenient. That’s no place for closure to bloom.
AQUARIUS
Aquariuses need to be kept busy. I know it seems counterintuitive, but Aquariuses more than any other sign know how to get in their own way. Healing comes naturally to them, so long as they aren’t actively trying to seek it out. When they do, the results are often disastrous, leading to overthinking, reaching out to people from the past, and wild schemes to get everything back to normal. It’s best just to occupy them until closure unconsciously occurs.
PISCES
Pisces aren’t great when it comes to other’s boundaries, primarily because they themselves aren’t great at setting them. Because of this, closure is rarely even a blip on their radar. This is fine in the short term, but in the long term, many years down the line, if an issue isn’t addressed Pisces will begin to feel anxious and antsy until a solution is found. They must root themselves in the present and be realistic if they want to save their future selves the trouble.