What Each Zodiac Needs To Avoid Feeling Bored In The Relationship
Aries
Aries live for the thrill of it all—they truly despise monotony and routine. This sign can easily grow bored when the novelty of the relationship wears off. In order to keep things from feeling stagnant, Aries requires spontaneity and adventure. As their partner, you must keep them on their toes with fun and playfulness. Aries wants to feel surprised. They don’t want a predictable life. It’s important for the connection to feel like it did at the beginning. Make their heart race by building a life together full of new experiences. Satiate their inner child.
Taurus
Taurus is slow to grow bored in relationships, however, it’s possible for even this stability-focused sign to grow worn out in love. Usually, this is due to an unreliable partner or one who makes them feel unappreciated. It’s very simple to keep the connection alive with Taurus—don’t place them on the back burner. You must actively prioritize and place effort into the relationship. This sign just wants to feel cherished. For them, it’s essential to build a solid, long-lasting foundation. They place value on quality time—bonus points for that time involving the sensual and luxurious. Cooking dinner together, exquisite dates, romance, and gifts go a long way for them.
Gemini
This is a sign that is driven by their inherent curiosity. They’re always seeking new and exciting experiences. For this reason, Gemini is prone to getting bored in relationships, often leading to their demise. To avoid this, Gemini needs to be challenged intellectually and constantly surprised. In order for a relationship to thrive with Gemini, they require stimulating conversation, spontaneity, and fun. As their partner, they need you to find new and unique ways of emotionally and physically connecting.
Cancer
Even this ultra-committed sign can grow bored in relationships. Cancer is an extremely sensitive and vulnerable sign who acts on their emotions. They can’t function without affection. This gentle soul needs a partner to be extra attentive and make them feel heard and understood. As their partner, you must make them feel nurtured and taken care of. They feel worn out when they don’t get the love they require. A lack of it can actually make them doubt your intentions and will slowly eat away at their desire to place any kind of effort into the relationship. The best way to keep a Cancer interested is with constant and open communication.
Leo
Leo quickly moves on when they don’t get what they need—and what they need is frequent adoration and affirmation. If they don’t get the attention they require, they’ll seek it elsewhere. This sign must know beyond a reasonable doubt that they’re loved and of the weight they hold in your life. Romantic gestures and new experiences with their beloved are what breathe life into the relationship. You must slow down and be intentional with Leo—kiss them, compliment them, notice the details, be sweet, look into their eyes, and provide them with excessive-quality time.
Virgo
While Virgo craves stability above all else, stagnancy in a relationship bores them. Loving a Virgo means choosing not to remain static—both in your partnership and individually. This sign believes people should be constantly growing. They work on always improving themselves and becoming better versions of who they are as human beings. This means that it’s crucial to make the effort to learn new things together and dive into unique experiences as a couple. Virgo wants to live life to the fullest with their significant other. They also need to see you trying in all aspects—professionally, introspectively, domestically, and emotionally. A lack of effort is a huge turn-off for Virgo, and it’s what spawns disillusion. Be proactive.
Libra
With a Libra, the mindset should always be “romance is not dead.” They need a partner who keeps the spark alive—the same one that brought you two together in the first place. If your relationship gets stuck in a rut, you’ve got big problems. Flirt with your Libra as intensely as you did in the beginning. Treat every date like a first date. Plan surprises like romantic candle-lit dinners, bust out the fancy champagne and satisfy their tastes through art. It’s also very important for you to check in with them to make sure their emotional needs are being met. Don’t let the flame die out.
Scorpio
Scorpio longs to feel desired. For this sign, everything is heightened—they need depth, passion, and persistence to stay interested. Scorp is highly in tune with their emotions, so they need you to tap into theirs (and your own), otherwise, they mistake it as disinterest and a lack of commitment. Stay curious about the Scorpio in your life and give them that extra effort they require. They will pull away when they feel like you’re not trying. Be vocal with your affections…and extremely physical, too. They require emotional and sexual intimacy to feel reassured. It’s extremely important that you don’t let things get stagnant in the bedroom (and that you’re open to experimenting with new things).
Sagittarius
Sagittarius needs a partner who doesn’t make them feel suffocated—one who would never allow them to sacrifice any part of themselves for the relationship. This is a sign driven by a passion to learn and experience new things. Travel with them, get your adrenaline pumping, and go outside your comfort zones together. Grow with them and be willing to expand your horizons and worldview. Encourage them to do these things even when you can’t be there with them. Allow them to have a life outside of your relationship. They’ll grow not only bored but resentful if they feel like they can’t be themselves freely or go after what’s most important to them. Just because they need constant change and novelty doesn’t mean they won’t be coming back home to you.
Capricorn
Capricorn cannot stand a clingy partner. This is their biggest turn-off. It leads them to not only grow bored but lose respect for you. Cap is someone driven by ambition and success. They need a significant other with goals and passions of their own—someone who doesn’t need to spend all their time with them. For them, it’s super important for each of you to spend time working on yourselves to then come together to build something strong. If you don’t want Capricorn to grow bored of you, then you must grow and succeed as an individual. Make your dreams come true and encourage theirs.
Aquarius
For Aquarius, it’s stimulation that feeds an emotional connection. They want to be challenged on an intellectual and spiritual level. This sign needs depth to keep the spark alive in a relationship. For them, this is the foundation of a raw and honest connection. It’s also important that their partner doesn’t try to force them to sacrifice their individuality. They need someone who not only respects their unconventional views but who also respects their need for independence. With Aquarius, it’s simple—sometimes absence makes the heart grow fonder. Respect their need for space and broaden their horizons.
Pisces
Pisces is a huge romantic who craves a deep, soulful connection. Nothing bores them faster than a lack of initiative. For this dreamer, you must work to keep the fantasy and magic alive. Breathe romance into the relationship in unique and novel ways. They need to feel that you’re as excited about your love as you were in the beginning, otherwise, they begin to lose their excitement. Pisces needs meaningful and creative ways to connect with their partner, or else they’ll go searching for someone who will rekindle that imagination.