What Each Zodiac Needs To Hear If They’re Thinking About Texting Their Ex
You’re impulsive, but you don’t want to make a decision like this without thinking it through. You don’t want to end up regretting your actions. Take a second. Take a breath. And ask yourself whether this is genuinely a good idea or only an impulse.
You’re stubborn, but that doesn’t mean you need to hold onto this relationship. If they weren’t good for you, it’s okay to let it go. It’s okay to call it quits. Don’t hold on, simply because you’re too stubborn to see what’s best for yourself.
You’re a social butterfly, so don’t forget that there are plenty of other fish in the sea. This person isn’t your only option, even though they might feel like it right now. And they’re not the only person you’ll ever love, even though they might feel like it right now.
You have a huge heart, but it deserves to be treated with love and respect. You shouldn’t be the only one apologizing, the only one trying to make this work. If they aren’t going to meet you halfway, then you really should let them stay away.
You are a loyal sign. You would never hurt anyone you care about, so why would you let others hurt you? Why would you accept less than you’re giving? Why would you settle for someone who can’t do the bare minimum for you?
You are a fixer, but you can’t fix everything. Some relationships are meant to end. There’s nothing you can do to solve the problem. And it’s not your responsibility to solve it alone, anyway. It takes two people to make a relationship work.
You are a big believer in forgiveness, but remember that forgiveness doesn’t have to mean reconciliation. You can forgive them without letting them back into your life. You can forgive them without giving them another opportunity to hurt you.
You crave connection, but this person isn’t the only person out there. You shouldn’t cling to them, simply because they’re familiar. The unknown is scary, but sometimes it’s your best option. Sometimes it’s better to move on and see who else is out there.
You are a go-getter. You always chase after what you want and nothing can stop you. But you have to ask yourself whether a relationship with this person is what you really want. Do they treat you right? Do they respect you? Do they make you feel safe and comfortable by their side?
You hate giving up on people that you once trusted, but you don’t want to waste all your energy on someone who isn’t willing to put effort into you. Sometimes, you have to admit you were wrong. You have to accept that this relationship wasn’t perfect after all.
You are strong enough to survive on your own. You don’t need a relationship to be happy. So don’t give into temptation and text someone who isn’t good for you. You can do this. You can thrive without them.
You are a people-pleaser, but you shouldn’t put others above yourself all the time. You shouldn’t care more about making this person happy than making yourself happy. Ask yourself whether they’re really enough for you, not whether you’re enough for them.