8 Signs He Only Wants Your Body, Based On His Texts
He won’t stop begging for pics – and sending you pics.
Half of the time, he’s not texting you words. He’s texting you photos of his body. And then he’s begging you to send photos of your own. If he keeps doing this, even after you’ve made it clear that you want more than a physical relationship, he’s not listening to your intentions. He’s not meeting your expectations. You two are clearly on different pages in terms of what you want from each other.
He only texts you after midnight when he’s wasted or lonely.
You never receive a good morning text or a message in the middle of the day asking how you’re doing. The texts always come in the middle of the night when he wants you to come visit him. And more often than not, he’s drunk when he’s texting you. When he’s sober, he worries about other things.
Every conversation turns into him hitting on you.
You never have the chance to talk about anything real. Whenever you try to ask him about his day, he makes a flirtatious comment about how he’s in the shower or is lonely in bed and wants to cuddle. Of course, there’s nothing wrong with him being flirtatious – but when he can’t answer a simple question without turning it into a reason to start sexting, you’re never going to get to know each other on a deeper level. You need to have some serious convos, too.
Whenever he suggests hanging out, it involves his bedroom.
He never talks about bringing you on a cute ice-skating date or even bringing you to the movie theater. He only suggests you coming back to his apartment to watch Netflix in bed. Whether he’s explicit about it or not, all he wants is your body next to him.
When he gets into a relationship, he stops texting you completely.
You’re not real friends because he drops off the face of the planet whenever he starts seeing someone new. Of course, when he’s single again, he’ll start hitting you up again. Whether or not you get any attention from him depends on his relationship status.
His compliments only revolve around your physical appearance.
He never tells you how funny you are or how much he enjoys spending time with you. He never mentions how impressed he is by your work or how he’s happy to have you in his life. All his compliments are about your body. He talks more about your appearance than anything else.
He doesn’t text you. He sexts you.
Every single time he contacts you, it’s to tell you how badly he wants you. The conversations are always R-rated. No exceptions. Maybe he’s not even messaging you over text. He’s using Snapchat so the evidence can be erased.
He only texts you after you post hot pictures on Instagram.
He won’t reach out to you unless he’s thirsting over you. Whenever he gets a glimpse of your beauty, he runs to talk to you. But the rest of the time, you aren’t on his mind. And you deserve better than that.