How Each Zodiac Approaches a First Date

Aries 

A zodiac known for pioneering their way through life, Aries leads a first date with action and energy. They tend not to overthink or over-prepare, and are more likely to process situations as they unfold naturally. An Aries’ approach can come off as intense, and it’s important for them to be with someone who can support and uplift their energetic spirit. Aries is direct, and a compatible partner will appreciate this. 

Taurus 

Valuing stability and security, Taurus takes a soft approach when initiating a first date. It’s important for Taurus to reflect on how a potential dating partner fits into the larger context of their life prior to entering a relationship. For Taurus, a first date is about creating a welcoming space for comfort and connection. This often involves activities such as a tasteful dinner, time outside, or meaningful talk over a cup of coffee. 

Gemini

A social sign, Gemini loves the process of getting to know someone new and enjoys this process with a mix of dynamic activities and conversation. Fast-paced and constantly curious, Gemini sees a first date as a time to assess how they feel in another’s presence. For Gemini, a first date is a time for humor, deep discussion, and playfulness, often asking many questions and easily adapting to whatever a situation may bring.

Cancer 

Sentimental and driven by a desire for close, intimate relationships, Cancer prioritizes emotional connection. On a first date, they often prefer venues that allow for intimate discussion. Cancer typically likes to get to know someone prior to escalating a relationship, and it’s important they stay in touch with their intuition when engaging in the dating process. A compatible partner will respect their sensitivity and honor personal boundaries with the utmost respect.

Leo 

Bold and expressive, Leo loves feeling excited about a first date and is often happy to take part in the planning process. When in a healthy place, Leo’s actions stem from the warmest place of their heart. Leo finds value in making a date meaningful, engaging, and special, and likes to step foot into a potential new relationship on this foot.

Virgo

Detail oriented, Virgo appreciates a date that’s been planned out and communicated. A first date is a time to remain practical and grounded, giving them an opportunity to assess compatibility. Happy to forgo bells and whistles, Virgo typically appreciates the simple side of first dates, and treats them as an in-person opportunity to get to know someone else and their values better.

Libra

Valuing harmony and balance, Libra appreciates a first date that helps them engage with their inner romantic. Conversation typically centers around light-hearted topics, which can make it challenging for their date to gauge Libra’s true feelings after the event is over. Libra seeks relationships that take a natural approach, and is likely willing to see someone after the first date to further evaluate compatibility. During a first date, Libra’s easygoingness may lead them to having a hard time providing direct answers. This is a skill they can improve with practice, and one that will grow with a compatible partner. 

Scorpio

Attracted to intelligence and passion, Scorpio seeks a partner they can engage with on a deeper emotional level. On a first date, Scorpio is observant, yet may hesitate to disclose many personal details. This ironically leads them to coming across as cold or uninterested. To Scorpio, trust is earned, and relationships are one of the most prized elements of life. This sign craves to have and be a ride or die.

Sagittarius

Adventurous and free-spirited, Sagittarius learns through experience and enjoys getting to know someone through engaging in a shared activity. They typically approach a first date with an easygoing attitude, happy to embrace the company of whomever is present. Known for their struggle with commitment, Sagittarius may find it challenging to follow up after having what seems like a great first date. 

Capricorn

Practical and goal-oriented, Capricorn is methodical about first dates and takes getting to know someone seriously. This thoughtful sign will plan a first date based on what they believe their date will enjoy. Setting a strong foundation is of the utmost importance to Capricorn, although they can come off as being too serious or emotionally reserved.

Aquarius

Big-picture thinkers, Aquarius loves to start a new relationship with a sense of meaning. They typically express their individuality early on in the relationship, leading with what they believe to be their authentic self. On a first date, Aquarius seeks stimulation and to create a safe atmosphere for learning about another.

Pisces

Romantic and in touch with their empathetic side, Pisces longs for these qualities to express themselves on a first date. They are very attentive to their date’s disposition, often striving to meet and demonstrate attention to their date’s wants and needs. This gentle sign has a tendency to be overly idealistic, and may struggle to feel connected with someone early on during the dating process.