How Each Zodiac Sign Shows up In Conflict

Aries

As initiator of the Zodiac year, Aries, you’re no stranger to an energy of dominance. You carry an affinity for leadership and have no problem bringing to surface issues others may feel comfortable sweeping under the rug. While some may misinterpret the strength of your personality for egotism, you find deep fulfillment in fighting for the wellbeing and voice of others. Beware, Aries, of any tendencies to continue engaging rather than seeking resolution of conflict. Be mindful of how you might interpret others’ actions and seek avenues to fight for — rather than against — the flow of life and what you so deeply value and wish for. 

Taurus

As a fixed earth sign, few are as loyal as you, a connection-seeking Taurus. Your drive for security and stability may lead you to take on unhealthy weight in conflict or carry on problematic relationships. When you sense yourself grounding into stubbornness or submitting your truth in the name of keeping peace, remember how valuable sharing your insight is. Although feeling quiet may seem like the safe option, sharing your voice helps ground conflict in a way that allows the reach of true resolution. Your affinity towards balance and equanimity creates safety in problem solving, ensuring all voices are heard. The peace you so desire comes as you learn to include yourself in the equation of discussing dreams, values, and challenges in the relationships you so profoundly value.

Gemini

Being the most communicative sign, Gemini, you love to obtain and share information. As a mutable air sign, your constant drive for intellectual stimulation may lead to emotional burnout as your tendency is to process and absorb more data. In conflict, this can leave you in quite the mental-emotional tornado. By taking time to process thoughts and emotions, you pique your insight to better communicate where the root of discomfort lies and what you want at the end of the discussion. You have a natural tendency to verbalize the stance of others and benefit when you’re able to experience and engage in the conflict resolution process. Streamlining communication will position your voice in a way that helps you feel more meaningfully understood.

Cancer

Oh feeling-nurturing Cancer, the concept of conflict can be quite scary for you. With a relationship to the unseen, your connection to the unconscious may amplify the pain you feel when you sense moments of conflict arising. This may lead you to jump to conclusions or rationalize before things actually happen. Your tendency is to withdraw, and the boomerang impact of this is often later lashing out (projecting) your felt pain onto others. By taking a moment to pause and be mindful of your internal state, you can ask your inner self what they need to feel provided for, give it to them, and rise out of a sense of powerlessness. Your connection to the unconscious is a gift, and one that shines as you remember how valid, powerful, and valuable you truly are. 

Leo

As the performer Zodiac sign, Leo, you’re no stranger to the world of drama. Be mindful, however, in recognizing the line between self-expression and performance behaviors. Although known for being loving, vibrant, and playful (as you are) you may struggle in times of conflict with expressing deeper vulnerabilities such as when you feel hurt, wounded, or alone. You may retreat in silence and hide what you truly feel, want, and desire. One of your deepest desires is to feel seen and included, and this grows as you’re able to take stage in sharing both the light and dark moments with others. Practice engaging in presence, and remember that others want to share the stage with you as deeply as you want to include them in yours.

Virgo

Known for your service, Virgo, your keen attention to detail helps you stay engaged and receptive to noticing when signs of conflict may be going awry. As a mutable earth sign, you’re able to stay rooted in the physical world while shifting and adjusting to help others feel comfortable. This may seem like a natural stance towards reaching conflict resolution, but be mindful in your tendency towards martyrdom and being overly self-critical. You may take accountability when it’s not due, therefore enabling others to continue engaging in problematic behavior. Allow others the gift of learning from lessons (yes this is a form of service in and of itself) and feed your nurturing capabilities by supporting them in the growth process rather than taking it on yourself.

Libra

As a cardinal air sign, Libra, you’re constantly on the lookout for ways to create balance. Given the socialness of your sign, your relationships may very well include everyone you meet. Your sign governs the domain of important adult relationships (the seventh house). Beware of your tendency to slide into indecision when it comes to conflict, as your natural inclination is to avoid it at all costs. In order to remain the leader of your life, it’s vital you remember your own opinion holds truth, beauty, and wisdom. Disagreement doesn’t mean a weakened relationship. Often, conflict leads to a deeper understanding of others and sharing the voice of your own opinion will help them feel closer to you. Leave any remains of people-pleasing behind.

Scorpio

The sign of deep transformation, Scorpio, you have no fear of the darkness and the process of rebirth. You understand that old parts and patterns must die in order for authenticity to be born. In times of conflict, you may be willing to dive into the depths, but be mindful that not everyone may be as open to change as you are. This may lead to a sense of isolation or loss. Do what you need to — journal, therapy, listen to music — to transform your relationship with the darkness into light, wisdom, and understanding. By being vulnerable in how you feel, you open the doors to communicate what it is you truly want and need. It may feel isolating at first, but as you take steps in letting others know what you’re going through, you help them get to know the real you.

Sagittarius

As the sign related to professorship and philosophy, Sagittarius, you love expanding your opinions and worldview. Conflict can feel quite damaging as you have a deep desire to speak and profess the truth. If you feel your opinion is being challenged, this may shatter your sense of self on a core level. Remember that conflict itself is nothing personal — we all come from different backgrounds with different needs, previous life experiences, and values. There’s beauty found in the pieces of truth held in differing perspectives. Channel your natural tendency towards being a lifelong learner by considering new perspectives without invalidating the very reasonable one of your own.

Capricorn

Being the father figure of the Zodiac, Capricorn, you contain a sense of wisdom and insistence that helps ensure everyone remains accountable for their words and actions. Ruled by the planet associated with karma, Saturn, you have a drive to move things to fruition.  In times of conflict, your natural leadership abilities may surface. But be wary that your value of work may lead you to withdraw from others, making you seem cold or unemotional. Pay attention to when you may be noticing your desire for power showing up or feeling blocked from your emotionality. Remember, caring for your relationships (yes this includes conflict resolution) is a project worthy of validation in and of itself. 

Aquarius

Known for your quirkiness and eccentricity, Aquarius, your sign governs the eleventh house, often known as the House of Friends. In times of conflict, you may forget the sheer magnitude of your power and suffer from imposter syndrome or the desire to conform. Your unique, raw perspective may very well be the exact gift we need to envision a new path aligned with conflict resolution. Rather than pushing yourself to strategize and plan — others can help — your natural gifts lie in your ability to stand up and question the current status quo. Your opinion makes more sense than you may think it does, and your sparks of insight are worthy and valuable to hear.

Pisces

The final sign of the Zodiac, Pisces, loves exploring consciousness and the nature of oneness itself. A sign connected to spirituality, you love practices that help you feel a sense of contact with the divine. Gifted with empathic qualities, you have an ability to sense the emotional state of others. Notice any tendencies to escape by means of numbing out — TV, food, sleep, video games, other addictive tendencies. In times of conflict, you may struggle with avoidance. You have a desire to feel connected with all of life, and this can be channeled during conflict by staying connected — rather than avoiding — your spiritual and empathetic nature. Bring your ideals into a state of presence and you’ll feel empowered to not only daydream, but live out your high standards in the physical realm.