“They’ll Consider It A Red Flag If…” Based On Their Birth Month
January
I’ll consider it a red flag if you are too immature to have serious conversations and want every single second together to be fun and exciting, because real relationships have quiet moments too.
February
I’ll consider it a red flag if you keep trying to one-up me instead of acknowledging my accomplishments and respecting my complaints because relationships aren’t supposed to be competitions.
March
I’ll consider it a red flag if you rarely open up about your feelings and make me guess what you’re thinking because I believe in transparency and open communication.
April
I’ll consider it a red flag if you only contact me when you need something and assume we’re going to hang out based around your schedule without taking my needs or my schedule into consideration.
May
I’ll consider it a red flag if you take yourself too seriously and won’t goof around, have fun, and show the silly parts of yourself even when we’re alone.
June
I’ll consider it a red flag if you make fun of my passions and hobbies just because they look different than yours and make me feel like I have to play pretend around you in order to be accepted.
July
I’ll consider it a red flag if you are always badmouthing your friends, family members, and coworkers because chances are that you’re saying the same things about me when my back is turned.
August
I’ll consider it a red flag if you always make me send the first message and keep the conversation flowing instead of putting in even the bare minimum amount of effort.
September
I’ll consider it a red flag if you run hot and cold with me, and send constant mixed signals instead of being mature enough to tell me how you feel and what your expectations are for the relationship.
October
I’ll consider it a red flag if all you ever talk about is work and you have a hard time enjoying the moment and putting your phone down when on a date because you’re busy answering emails and phone calls.
November
I’ll consider it a red flag if you are caught in little white lies because I expect my relationships to be based on honesty and understanding, so even the smallest lies are going to make me stop trusting you.
December
I’ll consider it a red flag if you are overly negative and spend most of the date complaining about work, your exes, and everything else that you can think of instead of even attempting to enjoy the moment.