Your Weekly Horoscope For January 21 – January 28
This week, stop looking for reasons to be upset. Stop making yourself sick to your stomach over things that aren’t even going to matter by this time tomorrow. Your feelings are valid and your emotions are allowed to be expressed, but this week, try to challenge yourself to look for the good instead of dwelling on the bad.
This week, stop assuming you know what’s running through the minds of others. Stop making snap judgements that could lead to misunderstandings. If you have a question, ask it. Get clarification. It’s better to air things out now than to assume you know what’s going on and create drama where there is none.
This week, stop waiting for your turn to speak when you should be actively listening to what others have to say. Even though you’re an entertainer and you have so many fun stories to tell, you can learn a lot by taking in information. Try to listen and learn as much as you can.
This week, stop waiting for the perfect moment to make your move. The timing is never going to be one hundred percent right. You’re never going to feel super comfortable. You’re always going to have a new excuse if you let yourself. So don’t let yourself. Do what you want now. Not later. No more procrastinating.
This week, stop worrying about what others will think of your decisions. Do what’s best for yourself, not what’s most impressive, not what will make you look the best to outside eyes. For a while, forget about your reputation. Forget about your family and friends. Listen to your gut. Do what you want to do.
This week, stop underestimating yourself. You are capable of so much more than you let yourself believe. You have a good head on your shoulders. You’re intelligent and strong. You can handle whatever is thrown at you. You can surpass your own expectations. You just have to put yourself out there.
This week, stop beating yourself up. Stop assuming that every little thing that goes wrong is somehow your fault. You aren’t to blame for things outside of your control. And even if you are at fault, everyone makes mistakes. Moving past them is what matters. Learning and growing is what matters.
This week, stop begging people to treat you right. If they aren’t going to meet your most basic standards, show them the door. You shouldn’t have to teach others how to treat you right. If they can’t figure it out, move on. There are better things out there for you.
This week, stop filling every silence. Sometimes, sitting with another person and enjoying their presence is enough. Sometimes, the best way you can help someone is by sticking by their side, not by offering solutions or ranting alongside them.
This week, stop taking yourself so seriously all the time. You’re a hard worker with big dreams, but that doesn’t mean you can never leave room for fun. Set aside time to goof off with your friends, to relax and unwind. You deserve a break. Give yourself one.
This week, stop working yourself to the point of exhaustion. You can get a good night’s sleep and still accomplish everything on your to-do list. You don’t have to sacrifice your health in the name of success. Take care of your mind and body. Treat yourself like a priority, not an afterthought.
This week, stop letting others cross your boundaries. Those boundaries exist for a reason. You need to enforce them because if you let someone get away with doing whatever they want, they’re never going to learn. Speak up because your feelings deserve to be heard. If this person can’t handle it, or continues to act in unacceptable ways, they never deserved you.