Why You Should Stay Single Right Now, According To A Tarot Reader
Aries
Your card: Queen of Cups
Maybe the Main Character Syndrome could take a break for a second? Instead of heading to your next relationship, take a break and spend this time helping others. Be the comforting voice, the listening ear, for people in your life.
Taurus
Your card: Temperance
It’s just going to take some patience. While you could be dating people right now, are they the right people? Or just “right now?” Wait for the person who actually gets you, and who you can’t wait to be around. Anything less isn’t worth your time.
Gemini
Your card: The Lovers
You like dating because it’s fun. First dates, getting to know people–it’s all good to you as long as you end up with an interesting story to tell your friends. But this card is telling you to stay single right now if you actually want to find real love. Don’t date just to fill time.
Cancer
Your card: 9 of Wands
This card is all about resilience. Staying single might feel boring or lonely, but if you stick with it, you’ll be single and available when you finally meet the one. And wouldn’t you rather end up with your soulmate, and not just the first person you meet?
Leo
Your card: Ace of Swords
You’re the one doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results. If Tinder didn’t work the last 10 times you reinstalled it, maybe it’s time to give up and try something else. Use this time being single to figure out what you want and a new way to get it.
Virgo
Your card: The Hermit
What do you want out of a relationship? Because this card is saying you don’t have it totally figured out. Don’t just list the concrete things you need, but the emotional ones, too. Sometimes it takes being alone to figure yourself out.
Libra
Your card: 3 of Swords
You really shouldn’t move on to a new relationship if you haven’t fully dealt with the pain and heartbreak that your last love ended with. If you can’t think of your ex without wincing or shedding a sorrowful tear, then you need some alone time to heal.
Scorpio
Your card: 8 of Swords
You feel hurt, like the victim of your last relationship. Maybe you are. Maybe you’re making your ex out to be the villain because it helps you heal. Either way, that negativity needs to leech out of you before you can be healthy enough to be with someone new.
Sagittarius
Your card: King of Wands
You’re charismatic, which means you’re often attracting people. The people you’re attracting might not be right for you, though. Be single and just meet people. You might find someone amazing that makes you want to be the one to ask them out, instead of the other way around.
Capricorn
Your card: 2 of Cups
If you’re honest with yourself, you often have crushes on people who barely know you exist. Or you might date someone who’s super into you, but you just feel “meh” about them. This card is telling you to wait for a mutual attraction rather than these imbalanced relationships.
Aquarius
Your card: 2 of Pentacles
You have a lot going on that has absolutely nothing to do with love. If you got into a relationship now, you’d only be giving your partner half of your attention at best. This is a good time just to stay single so you don’t have to worry about making someone feel unheard.
Pisces
Your card: Wheel of Fortune
You love the idea of fate in a relationship. It’s romantic. But how has that really worked out for you? Pull back from love until you’re ready to start making some actual moves on your own. Don’t let fate decide when you could be the master of your own destiny.